he said he is scared of girls and at the same time very shy
2006-11-24 23:17:19 · 11 answers · asked by musa s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
girls go for confident boys.
if your mate doesnt come across as confident he has no chance.
he has to be able to keep a converstaion going or the girls he is after wont be bothered.
maybe he should smile and let the girl approach him. but he has to talk to them when they do.
2006-11-24 23:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Approaching when scared is a mistake.
Women are very sensitive, and, I promise you, fear is not one of the things that attracts them. A stammering boobie may be cute in the movies, but, in real life, don't be surprised if it's mistaken for some sort of mental illness.
Also. Most women can instantly sense a man "on the hunt", posing, primping and faking, and will not only turn the other way, but they seem to have an alarm system that other women can read.
A certain modest shyness can be very 'hot', I'm told, but your friend would probably be best advised to relax, go places and do things that he honestly enjoys. In this way, he is likely to be a bit more a)cheerful, b)confident, c)expressive of his happiness with himself, life and living in general. He is also FAR more likely to meet someone who shares some interests and will have a point to easily open a friendly conversation and let things grow!
A good sense of humor, some shared interests, and a relaxed, if not confident manner are the real keys to striking up a relationship.
Best wishes!
2006-11-24 23:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by HeldmyW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him to take up Origami. I have been folding for many years and have no problems attracting lots of interest - the bulge in my pocket is a box of paper, and when I pull it out and get started, the girls just love it.
2006-11-25 05:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when the right girl comes along he will overcome his shyness. Girls don't bite and some are just as shy. stat off making small talk first or you can set him up on a blind date.
2006-11-24 23:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes sports, then try to see if she likes sports too. If she likes gaming, skateboarding, surfing, etc. then ask her if she likes that stuff. I hang out with a whole bunch of guys, and one of them is shy. I tell him to open up once in a while and act like himself.
2006-11-24 23:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH bless!
let girls approach him! in that way he won't have to do much will he!
2006-11-25 02:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by red devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to put a cucumber down his pants then the girls will approach him
2006-11-24 23:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by oh_sh1te 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why post straight dating questions in the gay section?
2006-11-24 23:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
is he gay then interesting catorgory you posted in anyway what hes gota do is say core u got big **** bet my coks bigger tho wanna compare sizes
2006-11-24 23:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
use a bridges, this is effective. then make friend until such time, it is alright to propose.
2006-11-25 00:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by NIGHT_WATCH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋