I think I'm pregnant... and I'm only 13!?

Question

My boyfriend is 26 and I know he wanted a baby and all, but I don't know how to tell him. It wasn't planned and I've missed three periods. What do I do?

Okay... seriously, I'm not joking. I live with my grandma and I just CAN'T tell her. I CAN'T. It would kill her. She's already told me that if I ever got pregnant, she's dump me off into a juvenile detention center or something. I'm scared.

Answer 1

Well, your man could end up in jail for this. Talk to your parents about what to do.

Answer 2

Hi Honey,

First of all you should go and see your doctor as soon as possible. Find out if you are actually pregnant and go from there. If you are tell a responsible adult- your parents, a teacher, a friends Mom or Dad. It is important that you tell someone, as hard as it is going to be.

Also remember that people may not be very understanding. You are very young, practically a child, and your boyfriend is a grown man.

If you're not pregnant- always have protected sex, regardless of whether your boyfriend wants a baby or not. You are too young to even consider having a baby. You still have years of being a teenager to enjoy- hanging out with your friends, having normal teen experiences, finishing school. You don't want to be stuck at home with a baby.

Hope this helps and good luck if you are pregnant.

Answer 3

Sweetheart, you have got to take a pregnancy test. If you don't feel like telling your grandmother, then talk to you aunt, sister, cousin, a friend's parent. You seriously need to tell someone. You are too young to be going through this. I'm sorry but what were you thinking? Your boyfriend is way to old for you. He can be arrested for statutory rape. You need to find out if you are or not honey. If the test says you are pregnant, get in to see a doctor. I wish you the best of luck in your situation.

Answer 4

He wanted a baby but you don't know how to tell him? What's up with that? Some big, neat secret you think you can throw at him and he's going to accept it and be happy because he wanted a baby with a 13 year old!!! WHO in the HE.L.L are you going out with? The Devil?

ANNA - READ THIS! This better catch your attention. I hate to think that you are serious and everyone here including myself has not offered any help. If you are serious Anna, then you are really scared and I want
to help you. Please contact me at [e-mail]. Anna, if this is something that you and your friends thought would be funny, then stay scared. I will trace everything about you after I finish this mail. This is not something to be "played" or "joked" around with. We're considering a pedophile and a young pregnant child. Anna if you truly need help let me hear from you soon, before I have to find you.

Answer 5

13 and having sex with a 26 year old
this is not right its called paedohphilia, and your boyfriend is going to go to jail.
if you find out you are pregnant, i would consider an abortion.
you cant bring a baby into the world with no father (he will be in jail and even if he doesnt go to jail i think he would probably walk away from the responsibility) no job (do you even go to school?) no stable home (you cant raise a baby in a juvenile center)....
you are far too young to be having a baby, or sex for that matter...
please, stop trying to be a grown up, you are still a very young girl.
girls your age should be worried about sleep over parties and shopping and make up and playing....
not SEX!!!
and for god sake if you arent going to take this advice can you please listen to this

GET ON SOME BIRTH CONTROL AND USE CONDOMS

Answer 6

Send his *** to prison and go back to 7th grade. Tell your Grandma or SOME adult. Look for a home or a womans shelter that would offer counciling services. SERIOUSLY! He's a Pediphile (person who "likes" children), your probably not the first, & your still a baby. GL to ya anyways.

Answer 7

1.) he's a pervet and in no way shape or form does this sick sick man love you. He preys on children, like yourself for his perverted sexual pleasure, and as soon as you get older, he'll dump you and your baby for another ignorant kid, and knock her up.
2.) the posibility of you being pregnante and having a girl.....if you do and your still with him, he's a sexual child abuser and don't think for a minute that he wouldn't prey on his own daughter.
3.) he needs to be in jail
4.) GO TELL A ADULT!!, not a friend, not someone a year or two older, a ADULT, like your favorite teacher, your principal, counsler, next door neighbor, not a friend of your so called sick bf either, a real responsible adult.
5.)GO TO THE DOCTOR
6.) tell your grandma
7.) get some help. go to therapy, you need it and then for the love of your grandma, grow up.
8.) if your pregnante, think of your child, try to give your baby a good life
9.) you're in desperate need of God....i'll be praying for you.

Answer 8

1. Call the police on your perverted sex offender of a boyfriend.

2. Take a prego test.

3. Tell parents if prego.

4. See Doctor.

5. If this was a fake question, get a life.

Answer 9

when youre 13 you can have irregular periods. so take a test to make sure ur pregnant. if you are tell some one because the longer you wait you can cause problems for the baby and your body. Good Luck

Answer 10

Talk to someone. I just saw a show on Operah about a 15 year old who was pregnant and killed her baby. She is now in prison and will be for a very long time. They talked about websites and local places to contact if you are in a situation like you are. I'm sorry I don't know the website, but research it online. Find someone to talk to. There are confidential places to contact.
First.....get tested.

Answer 11

Well you do NEED to tell her or someone. Your grandma was probably just bluffing so that you DO NOT have sex. But you did, and she might have a change of heart.
She will find out once you start showing though. You can call helplines for help.