theres this boy...?

Question

i like this boy and i think he likes me, right? but when ever i see him i get scared to even talk to him. He is cute and plays football and basketball. and his locker is right by mine. i wish i have the guts to talk to him... but i don't. Every other guy, i can talk to, but its hard for me to talk to him. each time i walk down the hall, he looks at me and i look at him. i just don't know what to do. help me!

Answer 1

And like who really cares..?!!

Answer 2

Use humor. It loosens the tension. If his locker is right next to yours, you have an advantage already. I would do harmless, humorous things like maybe . . . put a note on his locker stating that due to contamination determined in this locker, all items must be removed immediately & moved into the locker next to his. Then, show him the same type note stating something like: Due to emergency locker repair, please be advised that the person in locker # . . . will be required to place all belongings in your locker (locker # . . . ) However lockers are listed at your school. Or "Attn: all basketball players, practice will be held in the school library today due to circumstances beyond our control." I don't know, you know your personality better than I do. Do not let him know it is you doing whatever you choose to do until you see how he responds. You need a reason to communicate with him and usually humor lightens up the mood.
It worked for me back in school. There was no caller ID back then. Remember though, the key word is "harmless."

Answer 3

at work i have the same situation i work at a ski factory and there is this girl that youst stands out from others there i am grinding skies and every day at the end of work she comes by and we have eye contact every time. I had a big problem on what to say but when i thought of something i didnt have enough guts to actualy say something i youst frozed. But then there was yesterday when i said to here hi cinndarella and she said hi rubber princ and that broke the block of ice we imidiately start to smile and today we are going to the movies.

Answer 4

take a deep breath...
he likes sports, get his opinion on professional or college ball.
next time you can see him you can spin that topic on to something different.

now practice the conversation, be prepared with at least two topics so that even if you get tongue tied you have a comeback in your mind.

push comes to shove, get involved in a group activity in which you're required to speak to each other

Answer 5

if you and him are still studying in school, then i suggest you don't go into a relationship as a lot of things can happen when he goes to N.S.

let him grow up and if you and him are fated, then you can call him after his O.R.D.

there are many guys out there waiting for commitment not just him.

ps: it will hurt a lot if there is love triangle, etc.

mercury of love

Answer 6

LIFE IS SHORT.Please go up to him and just be honest. Tell him that you really want to get to know him and spend some time. You will be very surprised with the response.
Trust me he is a person not an untouchable God!

Answer 7

i'd like to be direct. get the act right, this "eye locking" will not take you both anywhere. it's hard to face situations like these. but then understand what you want from this situation. ask yourself are you serious or casual. liking is different from loving someone. in love whole body and mind get involved completely. liking someone is like having a crush on that person. "i think he likes me" sounds like you are in complete doubt about how you feel for "this boy". if you are in love, admit it...accept it and then walk up and say genuinely that you "like" the person.

NOTE: i said genuinely.

i do not expect you to be bold. but all i want to say is i lost opportunities to express my genuine interest in a girl just because i did not have the courage to walk up to her and say "i LIKE you". now I regret.

as he looks at you it definitely means he notices you as a person. perhaps he is thinking in the same manner like you. imagine if he feels like he does not have the "guts" to come up to you and express his genuine interest. just imagine!

mustering courage to express your feeling now is more apt than crying over a lost opportunity later on. now he won't eat you up if you tell him you like him, will he?. make a note of what i am going to say now. a human being loves to hear someone say "i love you" or "i like you". it gives a high. it's like a morale booster. believe me, words like these lift the spirits. say it now, it's now or never.

but be prepared for an answer...both types. an emphatic "yes" to your genuine interest or a simple "no". i believe, being prepared helps to a great extant and helps us not to lose our composure. one more thought...a relationship should not be based on fluid concepts like physical features or what a person does. words like "cute" and "plays" will not help you in the long run. i don't mean to say that physical attraction is altogether wrong. the outer covering that we have will fade away with time. if you are serious, try to like the person's qualities, his morals and the inner self.

if you genuinely like "this boy" go ahead and say it out. the best time is at the locker. try to start up a conversation. be genuine. start off with what interests him. topic about sports and next NBA match or top player. i am sure he would open up too and talk to you. all you need is an ice breaker. what better way to break ice than with a neutral topic like sports.

finally child, i wish and pray you suceed in talking to him. i do not want you to go through regret like i do. loving or liking someone is a very precious feeling. the most valuable, i'd say. don't miss out on this opportunity. remember, locker is the best place to open up and topic of his interest is the key to break ice.

have a good life.

Answer 8

Hahahahah! But this is relevant - love holds the key to the meaning of life!

Answer 9

take a deep breath an talk to him don't let him go if he likes you as you said there is no time tell him

Answer 10

u just go and talk to him and wish to god to give u luck u may also talk to him indirectly through a friend

Answer 11

dont look him in the eye and just talk to him. or u could just give him a note.