My sex drive is higher than my husband's. He seems to get annoyed if I try to initiate sex more than twice a day. We have a good physical relationship, I guess I'm just more active in that department. Are most women more physically active than their counterparts?
2006-11-24 20:12:52 · 18 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess what I'm trying to ask is...is it bad for a woman to be that active? I feel like there's something wrong with ME.
2006-11-24 20:18:04 · update #1
Nothing wrong with you. Sometimes we march to different drummers. It's unfortunate his need and your need do not mess.
I can't speak for other men, but when a girl wants it more than once, I'd think of it as a compliment; that it was so because I was doing something right.
If he is a businessman or a dedicated employee, perhaps he was preoccupied with trade stuff. You may have to give him some allowance.
2006-11-24 22:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that proves that ..what men have in mind always is not sex??
and depends how long yur married too,newly married couples dont mind having sex even 3 times a day..but when times go along..sex naturally goes through the backdoor..
& most women dont have a sex drive larger than there husbands .have children then u would forget about sex.
2006-11-24 20:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by suren D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you thought about seeing a therapist for a few sessions? Maybe you are just trying to validate yourself; Do you think you might have issues with self esteem? And you are seeking reaffirmation? It's always good to get a view from a third party who is not a friend or an assosciate, plus this is their field of expertise.There are a lot of folks out there where one persons libido is stronger than their partners I think you need to talk to a professional.
2006-11-24 20:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by hotfox 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, not at all.
It seems U R more active, so try calm down yourself and enjoy whatever u r having, normly females have to have 4play but instead u do it to get more pleasure. Good Luck
2006-11-24 20:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by g_hnst 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES!! I also am more sexually active! I hate it. We recently decided to have another baby, but how can we if we don't try?! All I do is try to seduce him. But my "married" husband gets so annoyed when I ask him every night if he wants to "jump" into bed!
2006-11-24 20:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by vetsmom_rgv 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seeking it for more than twice seems to be on higher side.. Instead of asking him more than what he can manage you may like to go for self help.. if you like..
2006-11-24 20:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What on earth are you talking about? If you want to 'cool off', go for a run and have a cold shower. What is this question about, sex? Exercise? Metabolism? Sleep?
2006-11-24 20:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's why God created sex toys. If he's not in the mood, you may find that doing yourself in front of him changes his mind.
2006-11-24 20:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do not believe there would be to many husbands out there sharing your husbands problem.
2006-11-24 20:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are just a nympho, get a vibrator and please yourself sometimes cause 2 times a day is too much for a guy to handle... especially with a wife. Good luck.
2006-11-24 20:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋