He is a good friend of mine.I know that he loves me. but he is afarid of proposing me. What shall i do , I dont want to propose him I want him to propose me???
2006-11-24 19:19:19 · 25 answers · asked by Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be obvious to him that you like him too? unless you dont like him. he needs the sense of security. everyone fears refection. so give him the confidence. like tell him hes a wonderful guy or comment about his looks or character in a casual and chatting tone(:but if hes really shy and stuff then no one can actually make him propose.
2006-11-24 19:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by destinyofangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better take a lead and go ahead propose to him....
first think if his parents are looking out for him....then he might feel the same about you.....and though he likes you, and has been your good friends.............might think that you are a good girl and you need to marry a better person than him.
now the bottom line is you are lost if you dont let him know what you have in your mind for him.
If you take a lead and put one step forward, he will put 10 steps forward, its very delicate issue for him bcos he might be feeling that if he proposes you and if you reject him, then what next....he cant remain as a good friend with you or your relationship will not have the same warmth that you have today.
so go ahead and propose to him, write a letter, send a mail or else talk to him directly.....
2006-11-25 00:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by grooovish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying she's this way but some females feel safe with playing games, a game of feeling needed, especially with a guy from a different country. Certainly this relationship hasn't had enough time face to face for you or her to even suggest this question. It's hard enough for people to really get to know a person who they see on a constant basis, little own one week together and communication on the computer. Look at reality and right now there is none.
2016-03-12 23:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Com'on don't be a common girl. Do it differently. Try to mingle more with other boys and make him jealous. Keep telling him things about other boys like he is soo funny and u know what happened this chap is so cool ...... and blah blah... mind that this shouldn't cross limits.
Being a guy myself i feel jealous when my girlfriend talks about some other boys. Well if he really loves you then he'll surely express his feelings for you. All the best.
2006-11-24 21:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont force anybody to love you, It is not good to both of you, if you are shy to propose him , wait for him , if he have such feeling for you he will definitely propose you.
Love is a feeling comes out from the heart , you cannot create it artificially. may be artificial feeling will not be life long.Be patiance and wait for him.
2006-11-24 22:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah!
You need to let him ask you when he is ready....
maybe if you have been waiting a long while and you are debating wether to leave or not.. you need to ask him what his plans are for the next few years.
dont propose.. no guy would like that, its our job to ask the pretty ladies of the world...
give it some time..
"what is to be must be"
2006-11-24 19:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by One_Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Propose him, if he is using a little bit of mind he will not gonna propose you.
2006-11-25 09:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't waist time in first u, first u. It costs nothing.
I also at Same position before 4 years. she never propose me when i propose her she say u r late i have already a boyfriend
2006-11-24 21:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jixy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont propose to him, its bad luck
You cant make him.
You should ask him how he feels about marriage.
2006-11-24 19:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never push him into proposing. You want it to be special don't you. Let him do it in his own time. If he truley loves you, he will soon enough.Good luck
2006-11-24 19:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋