should i be worried i have talk to him plenty of time about it but he just tell's me ooo that the time is pretty soon i dont no what to think and say anymore what should i do???? i love him and he treat my like a princess!!!!
2006-11-24 18:57:47 · 13 answers · asked by ADRIANAPINK_562 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You haven't told us your age. No matter how you cut it, it really depends on how old you are right now.
If you're still very, very young ... let's say, under 24, then you can still afford to wait awhile longer.
If you're approaching 30 ... well, that's certainly not old by any means, but it is a benchmark because at around that age, you start seriously thinking about whether or not to have children.
You have to figure that if you leave this guy, it'll take a little while before you meet the next guy ... and then it'll take some time to build that relationship up to the point where marriage is a possibility ... and then yet more time until the topic of having children is ready to be discussed.
I guess what I'm trying to say in a nutshell is this: Don't waste ***all*** of your youth on a " possibility "... save some of it for the next guy you could be with who would gladly marry you in a heartbeat.
There's also that famous old saying that applies to guys who don't marry the women they live with: " Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free ? "
Sorry Sweetie, but I can't help but think that if he isn't ready after 4 years, he might never be ready. And you just might be missing out on meeting that special someone out there who really wants you in every possible way.
Whatever you ultimately decide, I wish you every possible happiness. Good Luck !!!
2006-11-24 19:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by mutt_buffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident. i could think of roughly leaving. If he has made no hint in any respect approximately marrying you i could be procuring around honestly. men understand a pair of million-2 years into the relationship in the event that they are going to marry you or not. If he hasn't asked you yet he would by no ability ask you. there are particularly some circumstances while a guy will stay with a woman for a protracted time, like years, then sell off her for somebody else they prefer and marry the different woman very very nearly as we talk. Like interior of a year or months after assembly her. I even have heard memories of this occurring a minimum of roughly 5 or 6 circumstances in my lifetime. He would be a gradual bloomer, yet once you pick marriage and he loves you he could make you his spouse. this is now or by no ability. i'm hoping i don't disappoint you or make you hassle whether this is in basic terms honest to make it easier to recognize this. men could be finished creeps and a**holes. they don't experience or think of the comparable way as women do as a result they are greater self-based....they sometimes do what's solid for #one million. If somebody isn't dedicated to supplying you with what you deserve in life flow on.
2016-10-13 01:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by archuletta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, don't dump him just because he hasn't proposed! If he treats you like a princess like you say he does you would be a fool to let him go, it is hard to find a good man these days! Give him some time, he might be waiting for the perfect moment, he might be planning a romantic way to surprise you. Give him time.
2006-11-24 19:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont push the matter. The more you keep asking for a proposal the more you might lose him over it. There is going to be a time when he proposes...but if you keep wanting it so much, you might now get it. Just relax and be happy with what you got, not what you havent gotten yet.
2006-11-24 19:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by FotoFan85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force a guy who is not ready but you cant wait forever either.I would tell him in you arent engaged in the next year you will move on as you need to know if this is going anywhere and if not he needs to let you go so you can find a man who will committ.Good Luck.
2006-11-24 19:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him about it in a serious way, tell him what you expect, then when you are ready give him an ultimatum, and be prepared to stick to it. If he doesn't come around look for another prince charming, you should never compromise your dreams.
2006-11-24 19:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by crissyk24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time and he will propose, u can't end a 4 yr. relationship just like that
2006-11-24 19:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by JO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on wait because he might not ready for it or try to talk to him that you want to be his forever but if whatever he want to tell you..you must consider to understand him and wait for the right time if he is ready..o.k
2006-11-24 19:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you guys are in love what the **** else do you have to worry about?
2006-11-24 19:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes waiting for the perfect moment so give him some time!
2006-11-24 18:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by ~aNn~ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋