2006-11-24 18:25:20 · 13 answers · asked by lefty 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
not all women, but many
2006-11-24 18:25:47 · update #1
Good question. They feel much more safer when they understand the man. If the man is too mysterious, they will avoid that. But then this is my hypothesis. In top of this other factors play a role.
2006-11-24 18:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by shkabaj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want an answer for something that is not an issue. most guys have girls that they have saved from even worse things because there are so few ways to meet girls. they can screw up anything that ever was just to have a guy to fix it cause that what guys do. the treating them terribly comes in with the don't throw the baby out with the dirty water, cause there has to be something to make it worth while for the ridicules way that guys have to make changes when the girls is blind to how somethings are. most parents keep there kids in the dark on things that make them fail and cause mistakes so that the parents had traps set all the time when they grow up just to make them fail and dear old mom and dad to the rescue so when you get this idea there is a relationship here with your words remember that you got set up to make mistakes that caused your own down fail when you were young and woman have even less chance to avoid this cause it's a information and disinformation world and it is very sly as to its intent
2006-11-25 03:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause the nice guy is only serving "safe" and she will be bored out of her wits if she must try act like that is the sparkle she need.
The bad guys is also signaling "survival" and that's what she goes for.
Psychopaths get all women they want,but seldom the women wants them to father the kids cause now Mr safe is in the interest again.
Try to keep a closed door for her-never mind if its anything behind it,but keep it closed so she wont doze of Zzz and end in the local meth-house searching for ignition!
^_^
2006-11-25 02:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by idiotjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women go out with men who act like their father in some way Like if the father ignored the daughter than a man who doesn't even care she is with him is one she feels safe with. Why do women stay with men who abuse them is inferiority complex and the women who nag all the time have controlling issues. But for the most widely view answer would be " We can't pick who we love" which is totally funny since it is an emotion and we control other emotions
2006-11-25 02:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by truely human 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes for a woman to feel good about herself, she needs to be involved w/ someone percieved as bad....it can make them see themselves as a better person. it could also be co-dependancy in the fact that this guy may be supporting her financially or in some other way taking care of her. another thing, maybe he isn't all that bad to her, but more often very good- the best she's ever been treated and that is what she holds onto thinking the bad stuff isn't so bad.
2006-11-25 02:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have wondered about this for years, i think in some part they felll they are strong enough to change these men that treat them like crap.To bad it is seldom the case , perhaps these women feel the neat to be punished and feel they don't desearve to be happy. oh knows my only wish for women in these relationships is be careful and hope you all escape without injury.
2006-11-25 02:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by robert s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do not like the terrible treatment, but like the absence of responsibility feeling it gives them so they can live guilt free as a victim.
they are attracted to a man who is sure of himself. it allows them to not have to worry about decisions. same thing makes some people join the army (sometimes) and stay in.
Sartre said" we are all condemned to be free". He meant that freedom is a great burden of decision and responsibility. many are eager to shrug it off on anyone else.
2006-11-25 02:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its womans obsession for the "bad boys" that does it.....and low self esteem, not thinking they deserve better.....me, ive been there and done that, now that ive grown up, and realised i dont need anyone to be happy in life, i just need to make myself happy, nothing more.
2006-11-25 02:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there bord with a nice guy because hes predictable. Bad guys are challenging.
2006-11-25 02:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You got me! Stupid I guess, no self esteem! Pretty pathetic
2006-11-25 02:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by lil mami 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋