married 7 years 2 children wife got preg. on purpose when he was leaving got preg. again. now savings are running out because she took him for everything he has. hes thinking of going back because of money he dont have anything left to have a life for himself what should i tell him?
2006-11-24 18:00:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hell yes its cheaper to keep her. collect while you can. save. save. save. just cheat if you have to. you shouldnt have stuck it.
2006-11-24 18:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all divorce is not good I'm not in favour with that. for me if he will come backto his family its not because of money the only reason he will come back to is to be a man. you must tell him that be a man enough and face the problem be a father to his children its hard to grown up with a broken family make him realise that. And i suggest that make his love for his wife renew again because I believe that he love his wife before in fact he courted her and promise the whole world why not trying to work up with there problem divorce is not the solution.
2006-11-25 02:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by yana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go through with the divorce cause going back will not solve problem . Just have to figure out a schedule for child support ,lawyer etc.. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-11-25 09:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like they say "money can't buy you love" I'd never stay in a marriage because of money or kids. The kids will be miserable too. And that's not fair to anyone
2006-11-25 02:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are you to him?
I am sure that he is aware that money isn't everything and if he is truely unhappy he should leave.
If you are his new potential partner it is likely that he is lying to you and that he really loves his wife and misses her and he is taking you for a ride!
2006-11-25 02:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it takes 2 to tango.........You are truly eluding of the issues at head of you think that he is going to leave her........Sounds like some major BS to me, and you would be better off finding someone without baggage.......
2006-11-25 02:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going back most likely won't solve the problem. It'll just delay it.
2006-11-25 02:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to do whats best for the kids, if they can work out their differences than more power to them. if not he should go his own way and start over
2006-11-25 02:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by mastermind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your decision to make.
He got himself into this mess. hes an adult.
Should have been more careful before promising to God, "till death do us part"
2006-11-25 02:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does he,s nuts. in my opion?
2006-11-25 03:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋