Im 13 should I loss my virginity?

Question

Im 13 and my boyfriend is so nice and cute should I loss my virginity to him?My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 weeks sense the 23.My bf say he loves me and he cares about me and hes a virgin too.Hes really nice .I dont want to be a virgin for the rest of my life.Should I loos it when Im in 8th grade?

Answer 1

NO!

3 months ago you were asking a question about being too young to date!!??

virginity is something precious. don't lose it so impetuously

Answer 2

What's the rush? There is a huge chance that you will not be a virgin for the rest of your life, you are only 13, you still have a long ways to go. You also have to think about the risks, if you get pregnant from having sex, then the rest of your life is gone. Do you really want to take care of a baby for the next 18 years? Is your boyfriend good enough to become your HUSBAND if something were to go wrong? I know I sound rather pushy and only you can decide when you think you are ready, but in my opinion I think you should wait.

Answer 3

Well just be thinking about what you will tell your future husband when he learns that you are damaged goods. Now you still are pure and moral. If you let this 3-week old boyfriend put it in you your resale value will drop considerably and by the timie you finally meet someone that you really want to marry and settle down with you will have had 15-20 sex partners and you will NEVER attract any guy that has any class or character. All you will be able to land is some tattooed, smoking, pierced, nightmare who will never look at you as special or important.

So I would think long and hard about starting to have sex at 13. You will start on a downhill slide that won't end until your third or fourth divorce.

Answer 4

Believe it or not I was about 6. But that is because we were left unsupervised for long periods of time and I had been exposed to it too much on TV i think. This is not something I recommend to anyone. The first time with the next person was 15 though and that seemed to work out just fine. 13 might be a little early, even though that's a little hypocritical coming from me. Good luck.

Answer 5

Well, You have kept it for 13 years why would you give something that important to someone you have only known for 3 weeks. Boys mature much earlier than girls in this regard, so your boyfriend is just at a different place than you at this time. If he REALLY loves you, he will not pressure you to do this. If you REALLY love him, you will understand how important this decision is and that you can only choose the person to share this with once.

Talk to your sister or another female member of your family (or a close friend) before you make the decision. They might be able to give you some information that may help you.

Answer 6

Lets see, you are 13 years old - not even legal age.
You've been dating for 3 weeks - not long enough to even start a relationship and definitely form a bond that leads to love.
You can't even spell correctly but believe you might be mature enough to handle what sex is.
You are asking a group of people on a website if you can "lose it" in 8th grade. It is this mentality of kids today that leads to the lack of what sex really is. Sex is a bond that 2 people who really love each other feel comfortable enough with one another and want to show each other how much they love each. I'm not necessarily talking marriage - but you have to realize that sex is a precious gift and should not even begin to be considered at your age, especially at your mentality.

Answer 7

Loosing your virginity comes with the risk of getting pregnant. And if you were to get pregnant who would take care of the baby. You cant even get a job " legally" until you are sixteen which shows you can't even take of yourself let alone a child. So when you think of having sex just don't think of the 10 minutes of pleasure think of all the oher stuff such as pregnancy, diseases, breakups( when you give your body to a guy breaking up is ten times harder than if you guys were keeping your pants up). Personally you are far too young so I would suggest you lock down klink, klink!

Answer 8

NO! No! NO!

Have Some Self Respect!
You May Feel Physically able to Undertake the Act of Sexual Intercourse,BUT Your Emotions WILL NOT be able to Cope with the After Effects!
If you Really Feel You have to do this (Which I personally Think is 'WRONG') ,and You are Under NO pressure from Friends or This Boyfriend-Then Please remember to use Birth Control!
Do NOT be pressured into acting unless YOU ARE completely SURE!!

Answer 9

It a decision not to be made in a rush, so think carefully.

If you are older, and get to know a guy which is much better then this guy. HE will be sad to know that you made such a silly decision before.

People will look down on you, and what if you get pregnant?

Please do consider the feelings of others (Parents, relatives & friends) around you, not the one guy you just loved.

Answer 10

Please, please tell me you are joking. You are 13 !!!!! I did not even get my period until I was 15. You have a lot of time to grow up honey, do not rush it. You are much too young physically and emotionally to have sex. And take my work for it please, your boyfriend does not love you. He just wants to have sex. They all love you until you put out. Imagine if you have sex with him and he tells the other boys and it gets all over school, you will always be the "ho" for the rest of the time you are in school with those kids. Even if you think everyone else is doing it, trust me they aren't. Whats wrong with waiting until you are 18, or at least 16. I know it is unrealistic for me to hope you will wait for marriage, but at least wait until you are old enough to handle the emotional part of it. And please read everything you can on birth control. A condom is a neccesity. Please wait.

Answer 11

No. Too many risks! Dont do it. Im not trying to tell you anything negative about sex, but a friend of mine did it middle school and she was labeled a slut. You dont want that. To be honest, 13 is a little young to say " I love you" not doubting that he loves you, but maybe in a way that says " i wanna do it"
you WILL regret it. trust me.
My fiance respects me. he doesn't look at me as an object. He knows theres more to me than sex. You need to respect yourself enough to not give in to temptations, especially at such a young age.