My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to be around me anymore. How do i get him to notice me more and how do i get him to spend more time with me than everyone else?
2006-11-24 17:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by Cha Chi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't crowd him or he'll just push you farther away.. he's prolly got something going on right now. that's what happened with my guy. and now i regret pushing to hang out with him every second.. he just needed space and i didn't give it to him. now i'm alone. try talking to him.. find out why he's neglecting you.
2006-11-24 17:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by agnosticstar 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It could be that "he is not that into you anymore" (there is a book by the title) But it could be that he is so comfortable with you that he thinks you don't need any special attention. If he is only calling you when he wants some booty, I would not go running at his beck and call. Start being involved with your own interests and friends, if you happen to be unavailable when he calls, so be it. Either he will get the message and start treating you special or he will fade away. If he fades away at least you will have a life of your own.
2006-11-25 01:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't know how to tell you he's ready to move on. If a guy loves you, he wants to spend time with you rather than with "everyone else".
2006-11-25 01:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I'd leave. But, outside of leaving, since you probably won't, get the book, Men are from Mars Women are from Venus. It will tell you how men think. Its nothing like women.
Guys like being with guys. Its just a guy thing. Its nothing against you at all. You have to accept it or leave.
Really, get the book. It will really open your eyes and probably help you with your bf.
2006-11-25 01:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start spending time with everyone but him, either he will come back or you will be having so much fun you won't notice it ended.
Jealousy is a great motivator ;-)
2006-11-25 01:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him the cold shoulder back, make him think it doesn't bother you one way or another if he's around or not. This is either going to make him wake up and realize what he's missing or get you out of a relationship you shouldn't be in anyway. Good luck.
2006-11-25 01:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hummers
2006-11-25 01:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's something he should WANT to do vs HAVE to do. Maybe it's just time you get a NEW guy. You are trying too hard
2006-11-25 01:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does not want you around...then what are you waiting for?... have some respect for yourself, move-on
2006-11-25 01:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he is just not that into you anymore. Sorry.
2006-11-25 01:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋