I'm in love with a close friend who's already invloved. What should I do?

Question

She already knows that I have feelings for her. At some point, she reciprocated too. But I think I took it too fast

She's in a relationship now. and I think I may have actually got her in that relationship. That's cause I kissed her, she told her bestfriend[who she's been in love with for two years], and *poof* she decided to make a move on the guy. And now.. They're together

I thought I could be okay with it. But I'm not. I pretend everyday that I'm fine with what's happening. Hell everyone else who knows, thinks I'm fine with it too. But I'm still dying inside. I'm still waiting for her, even though I know that it's useless. I'm still dreaming of being with her. I've tried to just forget about my own feelings, since she's damn happy with the guy.. But I just can't... I don't know what to do anymore.

The world's giving me mixed signs on what to do. Whether I should tell her that I still do love her or I should just keep my mouth shut and suffer. I don't know. Please help me.

Answer 1

Well I say it's better to keep a friend than to lose a friend. Be a man about it and move on you will find someone for yourself someday. If you are truly a friend you will stop wine-ing and slap your lusty emotions aside feel me? lol...You will thank me someday for this advice harsh as it sounds.

Answer 2

ooh i'm sorry that's happening to you. Well, that happened to me too. Listen, you can either tell her (i didn't and now we barely speak to each other...]:) and tell her you're uncomfortable but you want her to be happy.

If she tells you that she'll break up with her boyfriend if that's what you want, just tell her that you want whatever makes her happy, even though it'll hurt you. If you really love someone, you'll do whatever it takes for them to be happy, even have them love someone else if that's the case.

I know that it'll hurt you to see it, but there's nothing you can do. You should make her be happy even if it isn't with you.

But, if she breaks up with the guy, she might be a little depressed about it. So be a good person and help her talk it out or comfort her about. And, if you feel she'll be okay with it, go on the rebound. Try asking her to dinner to make her feel better, or something.

Answer 3

i think i would kool down and not be around her for a while. i mean she already knows that u like her and u said that she has been in love with her current bf for 2 years. so i dont think she likes u as more then a friend... but if u give her some space then she might miss u and realize that ur more important to her then that guy

Answer 4

Tell her, what the hell, its best she knows how you feel, maybe she's not as happy as you think she is, and now that she knows, you could have a chance.

Answer 5

you poor thing i under stand you completely i don't exactly know what you should do because i am waiting on the sameanswer myslef but i wish you good luck and i hope she comes to her sences dumps the other guy and gos for you.

Answer 6

i am almost in the same situation as u but except mine was guy he found out i liked hima nd then everytin became a mess

Answer 7

well, she knows you like her and she chose him, so there it is. do you want someone who doesn't want you back? no, so move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea and you just want her now that much more because she isn't available.

Answer 8

just go and tell her how you feel about her.

Answer 9

EASY!!!!
U JUST HVE 2 kill his BF

Answer 10

HAVE SOME BANANA