Say the girl is living in an urban area in India - but not a metropolis. She is estranged from her family and circumstances made her move in with a man who got her pregnant. He has no intention of marrying her. What must she do?
2006-11-24 16:57:34 · 8 answers · asked by Aanchal G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she can make it on her own..i didnt get married until my son was 4...and it ended up not working anyway...you dont need a man to raise a child....just make sure you get the child support money!!!
2006-11-24 17:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by sweetness01201 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Indian culture is different from the U.S. What I believe is that she is going to have a baby. Does the law there require him to pay child support as ours does? What exactly would his obligation be?
Estranged from family is not good. Perhaps she would get help if he humbly went to them and repaired the relationship?
She could look to place the child for adoption.
Is she still with the guy?
Too many questions and not enough knowledge of the laws and customs there.
Best Wishes to her.
Sue
2006-11-24 17:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A baby is never a mistake, it's a miracle. If you could carry for 9 months then give it up for adoption, there are plenty of people who want children and cant. If you decide to keep it, that child will be a blessing to your life, either way the baby in your womb is growing everyday, its not fair to deny it it's own life, because its already living.
2006-11-24 17:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by AntzaGurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm unsure on what the laws or customs are in India however, I'd recommend that the baby be placed for adoption so that it can be raised in a positive environment.
When you can leave, leave.
I have a friend in India if you additional assistance let me know. Just click on my name and e-mail me. I'm happy to help in any way I can.
There are other's that have been in your situation before...and its ok. Be good to yourself and your baby.
2006-11-24 17:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
excuse me but that is the question she had to ask herself before she got pregnant now she must just accept the consequences. You can't just say - ooops! I had a sex with man "accidentally", when you do that you know what you are doing and you know what may follow.
2006-11-24 18:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should get it aborted as if she is not going to get married soon. And if she going to get married she should tell each and everything to her would be....
2006-11-24 17:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by sueena 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She could apply for welfare and a daycare subsidy.
2006-11-24 16:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by shtupidshmuk 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
adopt it out or work really hard until he is born
2006-11-24 16:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by kirstin 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋