Does anyone else get nervous or uneasy when going to some place they have never been? Like I really do not like to travel to new places because I do not know the area? I have found the same thing applies when I go to new places to eat? Now when this happens, I usually drive myself there because I know I have a way out if I get uneasy or to nervous. I just get uneasy when these situations apply. I also like to sit in the back of places or on the ends. I'm the type that likes to walk in to a room, and if no one notices me, I'm okay with that. I don't like big crowds as they make me nervous. I'm a homebody but I do like to go eat and to movies, just when it isn't crowded. I enjoy the simple things. I don't have to travel to be happy or go all over world or try everything new. I'm happy with the little things, and I think that is why I get nervous with new places, I don't like change to much. Is this called something when people are like this?
2006-11-24 16:54:54 · 5 answers · asked by Wonderboy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am like that too. I prefer to sit in the back of the room, and observe people-to figure out what makes them tick. I don't like surprises. I can't be in a crowded room, restaurant, or store. I like to stay home. Once home for the day, I don't like to have to leave for anything. I don't mind meeting new people, but I don't seek them out. I have very few friends & I am OK with that. I like vacations that are one week max. & I am very happy to return home when the week is over. I'm not sure what "label" applies to this behaviour.
2006-11-24 17:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpio13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand!! I'm really bad though, like if i have to go somewhere (like i went to my boyfriends xmas party, where i didn't know anyone), i get so nervous that sometimes i throw up. And i worry about eating new places cause i might not like the food. I don't know what its called though, but i am totally happy with just staying home and raising my son
2006-11-25 01:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by latinsmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i do especially the time when i went to north Chicago for the first time (in my aunts brand new car) i always thought some one would do something to us or the car. and it looked like i didn't fit in being that there where Hispanics everywhere.
2006-11-25 00:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by littlesht 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called insecurity and lack of experience....you can conquer anything if you put your intelligent mind to it.
2006-11-25 04:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's called nuts!
2006-11-25 01:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋