Recentely, I tried to kill myself. I'm really depressed over everything. Cutting myself too. Please help.?

Question

I need to know what to do. This problem is afffecting every aspect of my life. I don't enjoy it, but I can't get out of it either.

Answer 1

I use to have these problems I found going to counseling, taking antidepressant, and changing my life style helped, but what really helps me day after day is watch Enjoying Everyday Life With Joyce Meyer and reading the Bible and other spiritual praying having a postive outlook on everything no matter what it is try to find the silver lining and believe me its not always easy .I no longer see a counselor, I lost my daughters almost five yrs ago after being a victim of domestic violence and they are now being raised in foster care so there's times I find myself in your positions,though I was always depressed but seriously clinging to Jesus Christ works it' gives you a sense a peace, hope, courage to face day to day struggles head on with confidence. So finding a local church would help.. but killing yourself is never the right answer think about your loved ones, truthful suicide is a cowards and a selfish persons way out we all have problem you know and there's always someone who's worse off then you so there's always hope.. and if I offended you in anyway I didn't mean to I am just hopin to get you to realize killing yourself would be stupid tho honestly I have felt that way a lot in my life and when you feel that way just think of something that makes you smile and happy.. for me its my girls smile, thoughts of them and my nieces and nephews just remember its never that bad and it'll get better.. and the cutting yourself sounds like you have problems dealing with and sorting out emotions I would definitely seek a profession community mental health are great and not highly priced and learn to deal and comuncate your emotions the cutting will stop and find a circle of friends and family to talk to, for after the counseling ends you have a strong support group to keep you going people you can call who will listen If you need someone to talk to Email me..
I can give you my Im if you want

Answer 2

u poor sweetheart welcome 2 my world. It sucks n no one cares esspeacialy the government (theres no votes in the mental illness sectore ) nor is it a glam fund rasing inspireing debilitation unlike cancer , diabeties ECR... Hey you cant see it so it must be all in ur head laughable if it werent so stupid of the community 2 think this way yep saddly the community dosnt care ether, its ignorent, bias, jugmental as u'v no doubt noticed from some of the A wipe aswers u got so far. the system of mental health is under funded n the media makes us look like monsters instead of sensative people with a dillitating illness that pushes sufferers 2 far due 2 the above resonse above.
please get what useless Kniff n fork medical help u can get n look up a mental health club house model nere u on google or other get involved it dose help 2 be umoung others with this exstreemly painfull illnes but dont be suprised if u need a break from it now n then as seeing ur self so 2 speak every were all the time can also get hard 2 take/ u never know u may thrive. more power 2 u fellow brain painer yes i know it hurts baddly all the time n theres not much releif but dont expect 2 many "norms " 2 give a @ # * + ! they have no idea of the kind of strength, will n guts it take 2 live with constant mental torcher. in2 the breach little solder . just get throw an other day.

Answer 3

Cutting is controlled pain. A lot of people that feel like the world is always throwing them crap will cut themselves because then they are able to control when the pain happens. It not only gives them a sense of control over themselves but it also gives them a visible wound that they know how to heal, as opposed to the invisible pain they feel and don't know how to remedy.

I know you hear it all the time, but really, you need to see a psychologist. They are REALLY helpful. You also need to go see your regular doctor. If you are in this bad, there are medications that will help. Depression that severe is caused by a chemical imbalance and can be corrected. Hopping yourself up on drugs is probably the last thing you want, but I know from experience (my own and several people I know) that they do work wonders.

The pills will help you feel better and be able to research why you are so upset, and most importantly, what you're going to do about it. I cannot stress enough how important psychologists are. Even if they don't say anything, you can sit there for an hour and talk about yourself. It sounds self centered, but a lot of people who are depressed don't have someone that will sit and listen to them for an hour...paid or not.

In addition to those things, you also need to spend as much time as you can doing things you enjoy. This may be too hard at first because even the things you used to enjoy bring you no pleasure. The meds will help with that and as soon as they do things will just start getting better and better. You'll be on your way to physically balanced, you'll be able to enjoy your favorite things again and you'll be able to get things out and get emotional guidance from the psychologist.

Answer 4

First thing to do is stop trying to help yourself...you need outside help...let others know of your problem....say a prayer...as simple as God please help me and I willl pray for you to that He will send the right people to help you or send you to the right people or person that can help you. If you have a relative or a friend, or a pastor that you can go to then ask someone to help you find a good councelor in addition to that. Just don't give up and know that the depression is not gonna win..because you are stronger than you think! You will come through, I know because I have been there and one day you will look back and be so thankful that you're still living! You are going to be Okay!

Answer 5

I am in treatment for post partum depression. Is very hard at first. When I was at the Hospital (10 days), I could not believe that it would ever go away. The doctors told me me it would take about 6 weeks for the medication to kick in. wow. that freaked me out. sometimes they had to give me a medication so I could breath normally, so great was my anxiety. so what I am trying to say is, get help fast, cause the medication does not work right a way. but I am a living proof that it works. I have my life back together and I want to live my life to the fullest. don't give up. Medications will put a balance in you brain and u will feel like never before. its OK to look for help and believe, there are tons of people in treatment for depression, I say, thank God for the pills.
I went to the ER, they saw my situation and took me in. They cared very much for me and my baby.
1.800.SUICIDE (784-2433),

Answer 6

Hey sup bro. Welcome to my world of depression. I am also a depressed guy. Not because of a girl, im not poor. family is really good. Just that I find what is the meaning of life. Looking at girls is not going to solve your problem. I dont even wanna look at girls because now for me they seem as devils. If they can let you go and with another person just like that then forget this species. You look at your self. Your a different person, different then everyone. You have your own way to think and do things. Who cares what others think. Your world is in your hands. If you wanna chat man Ill be happy too. my email is [e-mail] add me. I have don the same as you have. cut my self. and kill. You talk to me we both can sort out how to help eachother. Trust me

Answer 7

hello friend! what is it thats making u so depressed?? killing yourself is not the answer! the illusion of grandeur is nothing! thoughts of killing yourself only leave you with the question did i actually do it? am i still alive or is this just some permanent life im now trapped in :/. atleast ive thought that lol. i have also cut myself. on my arm or rather shoulder / bicep area. i try not to do it anymore, but i still get the urge to do it once ina while....its probably not the best option in dealing with feelings, getting endorphins to release or whatever lol. depresssion is addicting dont let it control you! well my friend ill help you out as much as i can. if u want to contact me my email is [e-mail]

Answer 8

Friend stop and think a moment about all the things you would miss if you did kill yourself. I don't know your age but I would guess you are young. Although things might seem dark right now, believe me they could be much darker. Think of girlfriends, wife, children, family, jobs, trips, fun things to do would you really want to give that all up? I don't think so....death is final...there is no coming back...

Think of those whom would miss you....think of everything like that and you will quit doing things like cutting yourself....think on the good things in life that you have to live yet! there are millions of them

Now quit thinking wrong thoughts and think positive ones. Write to me via email if you would like to hear more from me....I don't know you but I do care about you.

Answer 9

what is tried to kill myself mean.....did u wimp out or what, thats why ur depressed ur such a loser u cant even kill urself right. When killed myself back in 1972 i just hung myself in the family tree. But now im reincarcerated and im up and coming rappper, To hear some of my music go to
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Answer 10

honey, you need to see a doctor. you need some proffesional help. getting caught in a cycle of dppression and self mutilation is horrible. oh, i feel so terrible for you.

it's going to be ok, you just need to tell someone one the other side of the computer. you need someone who will be there for you.

i love you and i am going to start praying for you in fact i am praying for you right now. Jesus can heal you. i pray that you will find peace, and that you can begin to find some real hope. God be with you.