i've been trying to stop but i dont do it everyday. probobly when i have a lot of time on my hands. but the problem is, im grounded for the next two weeks and i dont know what to do. do you have any suggestions?
2006-11-24 16:29:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
Well, there is nothing wrong with it. In fact, medical practitioners may even recommend it at times. Religiously, that is a different thing, as it is seen as a sin for "spilling the seed". I feel that IF you want to stop because it makes you unhappy and miserable, you should. However, stopping this should be voluntary. Also, there might be a deep reason why you do this. Maybe you have a stress, trauma that forces you to do this...or maybe you don't. If you feel dirty or distressed from this behavior then maybe there is a need for you to look deeper into your feelings and discover the root of the problem. Of you feel good and happy after, then maybe its just that you need to have a stress releasor. The next time pay attention to how you feel. If you do choose to go ahead and stop this behavior then don't try to stop cold turkey. Try to limit it to 5, 4, 3,2,1,0 every week. If you fall, that's OK...don't be discouraged. Just keep going. Reward your self and think about something else, watch a movie, read, study and so on. whatever you do NEVER FEEL GUILTY!!! you are a strong person and I admire your courage in asking this question.
2006-11-24 19:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I not sure, but, from your name I will assume you female. People are not addicted to sex, it a natural part of being alive. I would say Human, but, Animals, Birds, etc. do it too.
OK, the sex drive is driven by energy, expend energy in other areas and your sex drive can slow. I know people may disagree, it a matter of opinion. But, this why they sell those drugs to men for "Limp Wiener" or whatever they call it. Men think it a problem, because they told this to sell the drug. It really a state of mind and physical. You tired and brain dead at the end of the day and sex not a big deal, energy has expired. Drug, help energy.
OK, with my Theory stated. Get involved in different things, then your sex drive may slow. I know mine will, that why, I not work much or get depressed, keep the ol' "Wanger" standing proud and ready to serve the American woman. ;-p
2006-11-24 16:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that causes pleasure can become an addiction. Obviously since you want to cut down and are having a hard time of it it, I think that would qualify as one. Not saying there is anything wrong with masturbating. You just don't want it to control your life and thoughts. I understand this because I desire to be in complete control of myself and my body. I think people who act on a whim are weak minded. My advice to you, get a hobby. Or try working out.
2006-11-24 23:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Max_Gio 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-13 01:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem with masturbating. It is a natural way to release tension, and end stress. It benefits your skin, hair and follicles. People who tell you masturbating is wrong are simply uninformed prudes who just don't want you to have fun. If you enjoy doing it, keep on doing it. There are no physical or mental drawbacks to it. Who cares what other people do?
2006-11-24 16:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
masturbation is both normal and healthy...what jerk told you it was bad and an addiction?
Please read the following web site information and you may learn that it is good for you.
http://www.libchrist.com/sexed/masturbation.html
Have fun and get with the program and enjoy yourself and quit believing the misinformation about addiction...OK
2006-11-24 16:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have fun; just don't hurt yourself and make sure you wash your hands! Oh, and while you're grounded try and and do something to expand your mind, too !
2006-11-24 16:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by infinitelight 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you say you're "addicted" to masturbation? If you masturbate less than 4 times a day, it's perfectly OK, and you really can't say you're "addicted" unless you masturbate so often you cannot carry out your daily activities (school, work, eating meals, bathing ect).
Do you REALLY masturbate that often?
2006-11-24 16:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Maybe get someone to help you so you dont get carpal tunnel syndrome?
2006-11-24 16:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Toddzilla SoCal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i'd be happy i was grounded. now you have alot of time on your hands (literally) don't worry about it.
2006-11-24 16:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by flagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋