I know i had asked a q before. me and my husband had sex rt after i stopped bleeding more then once for the next few weeks . now if i get preg it does not bother me i am a strong person , but i took a test and it was negative do you think that i took the test tooo soon or i am not pregnan? what do i do ?
2006-11-24 16:26:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You should give your body time. Being pregnant is hard enough and a miscarriage is harder. Give your body & mind time to heal.
2006-11-24 16:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ma RU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on a few things. Docs say that you are more fertile right after a miscarriage, so it's entirely possible that you got pregnant again right away. The hard part is knowing when. Because you did not have a full normal cycle between miscarrying and trying again it will be harder to determine where you are in your cycle. Your best bet is to keep testing until you are absolutely certain that you should have gotten your period again...and if it's still negative, head to the doc and ask for a blood test.
The other factor is how far along you were the first time. The HcG levels have to reach <5 again for you to be able to get pregnant again. I'm hoping your doc monitored you and told you when that happened. It also takes time for the uterus to get back into its normal shape, one that will sustain a pregnancy. If you get pregnant again too quickly after a miscarriage you will miscarry again because the body isn't ready for it. Please talk to your doc before you really start TTC again.
2006-11-25 00:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by tigger062077 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rarely if ever read the other responses prior to responding to forgive me if I repeat information already offered.
I myself had a miscarriage at almost the exact time as you did. Oct. 19th to be exact. I just recently stopped bleeding myself. Now with that being said, I am aware that every woman is different just as every pregnancy is. I haven't ovulated or had a normal cycle as of yet. Are you sure that you have? Now I had a d & c procedure because my body would not expel my twins and they had been dead for 13 days. I don't know if you had one or not but this procedure does complicate things even further with your body. With this being my third miscarriage, a set of twins and the surgical procedure, my body has responded differently. The previous miscarriages, I had a cycle immediately following, neither of those was the procedure necessary. Now you may have ovulated and certainly gotten pregnant, I'm in no way ruling that out but you may not of had a cycle yet and that would explain it being late. If your test was negative, it may of been too early or you may not be pregnant. I am ready to begin trying again physically but definitely not emotionally. Again, we're different women. I don't think 4 weeks is adequate time for your body to return completely to the non-pregnancy state in order to trigger ovulation though. This is my OPINION though. I can't be any more sure than you because we're not Dr's. But you're here for opinions anyway, yes? Yes. My body still aches for my babies and I still have that "empty" feeling inside...are you sure you're emotionally ready or are you trying/hoping to replace what you lost? I wish you luck though.
Trying to conceive so early following miscarriage doesn't increase your chances of repeating another miscarriage either. As long as it's not a problem with you medically that caused the miscarriage, your chances of it repeating are very slim...even early on. Good luck sweetheart.
2006-11-25 01:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself sometime first before trying to conceive again. Even if you are strong person and you think you metally think that your body is physically ready. Please give your body a break, give it a few months. 3 or 4. Otherwise your chance of miscarraging will re occur. So don't set your up for disapointment while rushing into things.
When that time comes go see the doctor and see if things seem ok internally. then make it happen.
Wishing all the luck to you and your husband! Hang in there alright. There's a time for everything and something gotta wait but I know that you know deep in your heart it's gonna happen.!! take it easy!!! bye =]
2006-11-25 01:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait a week after you missed your period to take a test again. And dont get frustrated if you're not pregnant. I know what it feels like to have a miscarriage. Like you, i just had one.
2006-11-25 02:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Blue R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't missed your period then you probably took it too soon. If you really want this pregnancy to happen then you could be obsessing into thinking your pregnant. Just relax and let it happen. Eventually it will.
2006-11-25 00:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by crostons4 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree to let your body heal and get yoour system back into order. Take care of yourself.
2006-11-25 00:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your body time to recover, you may be OK mentally and emotionally, but your body needs to heal.
2006-11-25 00:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by ang. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋