i got a friend and she is 14 and she think that she is pregnant with her bestfriends baby what should she do?

Answer 1

She needs to take a test and talk to her mom and go to the doctor

Answer 2

First of all why are these kids having sex in the first place. She has some real concerned parents. She needs to tell her parents and then go to a dr. and take a test and if she is pregnant she needs to think about how her life as a teenager is now officially over.. How does she even expect to take care of the baby she is to young to have a job. So I take it she will get welfare. WAY TO GO!!!! I have no pity for anyone who would be that dumb..

Answer 3

Call your local Planned Parenthood or take a home pregnancy test and find out for sure. If she is pregnant then she needs to tell her parents. I know it will be scary for her, but the truth of the matter is they're GOING to find out and at her age being pregnant is going to be very hard on her young body. She needs to be under a doctor's care for her own health and the health of her baby. The only thing worse than finding out she's pregnant at this point would be to be pregnant and deliver a sick or disabled baby because she didn't receive proper care. That actually happened to a friend of mine who hid her pregnancy from her mom. Biggest mistake she ever made, plus her mother eventually found out. I'll cross my fingers for her that she's not pregnant!

Answer 4

For one I think she should take a test and find out. IF she is pregnant then she should see a doctor to make sure everything is OK with her and the baby and than some how tell her parents . If your not you should use protection next time to be safe OK. I"m not going to say you shouldn't be having sex at that age but if you are going to have sex then be responsible and use protection OK.

Answer 5

If she is only 14, she needs the help and support of her parents. Unless she knows for sure that her parents would react violently to the news, she should tell them. Most parents surprise their children by understanding and helping once they get over the shock. If her parents will react so badly that they may hurt her, then she should go to a school counselor for help.
She needs, at the very least, to go to an adult she can trust and not try to hide this or only go to her friends for help.

Answer 6

what can she do? If she is pregnant then she is pregnant...there is nothing she can do now...she should have done something to prevent it in the first place...but if she is pregnant then it is too late...if she isnt then she should think of it as a second chance and take precaustions next time...but there shouldnt be a next time because she is only 14 years old!

Answer 7

Has she taken a pregnancy test? Thats the second thing she needs to do. The first thing she needs to do is think about the consequences actions can take. But it's too late for that, SHe needs to go to a MD asap. If she is pregnant, she needs perinatal care now. SAD.

Answer 8

She should definitly talk to her mom. Also, going to the doctor to take a pregnancy test would be best. If she is pregnant, she needs to decide if she is going to keep the baby and if so, she should take proper steps to having a healthy baby.(ie. nutrition, not smoking, etc.)

Answer 9

she should start the revolution. as soon as it is socially normal to have your best friends baby at age 14, she will not have to worry about any criticism. a social revolution is the only logical way to go about this.

Answer 10

She needs to stop having sex at 14.

If your friend doesn't have enough common sense to 1) not have sex at 14 and 2) not tell her parents, then she needs some help with her brain, not just her baby.

And a comment on the person who posted above me: thanks for pointing out that welfare point, you have me mad now. I get to spend my tax dollars on stupid people making stupid decisions. Great...