I'm a hs girl, and I'm attracted to my teacher. She's petite, smart, young, and beautiful. She has mysterious eyes which I adore and has a distinctive accent which I love hearing. I admit, she isn't the first girl I've been attracted to, but she definitely stands out.
Part of me to completely ignore these attractions, but truly, I can't deny them so the other half of me wants to accept them. I am attracted to guys, but girls turn me on too. Society is bad enough, and I definitely don't want my parents to know because they are compete homophobes. So I'm lost, and I really don't know what to think.
What should I do?
2006-11-24 16:06:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well considering shes your teahcer there isnt much you can do in that department. i mean you cant really approach her. i mean i guess you could. Really , I just think you should explore the fact that you like girls and go from there. If you feel you really do like them for sure and you may be with women in the future then you can consider telling your parents. From my own experience though, you must know that more than likely if you tell your parents now that you think you are gay or bi they are unlikely to believe you so be prepared and have a strong support system from some friends.
2006-11-24 16:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by U2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find this person attractive you won't be so self centered as to jeopardize all the hard work, and years, she put into building a career for herself, over your immature hs thoughts that think the most important thing in the world is that you may, or may not, be attracted to a woman. It's 2006, if you haven't thought about it somethings wrong. It does not make you gay. Yeah, the biggest concern here is what your parents would think. Grow up. Pay attention in class and leave your experiments to your little friends. They don't have a life time of goals half accomplished for you to screw up.
2006-11-24 16:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be less worried about your homophobic parents and more worried about the police. If you persue this and you teacher goes throught with it - not good. Wait till you graduate. She can lose her job and you can land her in jail. If you really liked you wouldn't want to do anything bad to her.
2006-11-24 16:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under no circumstances should you get involved with a teacher. The best case scenario is that she will only be fired, worst is that she goes to jail. Do you want either of those?
2006-11-24 16:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you want to experiment with agirl, but don't attempt to go after your teacher. She can't do anything with you, so try to find some girls your age that will experiment with you.
2006-11-24 16:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's fine that you're attracted to the same sex but you shouldn't be gunning for your teacher... She could lose her job and word travels FAST in high school.
2006-11-24 16:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
well, you should think about it after u graduate, there might be social consequences if you began with a teacher in school
2006-11-24 16:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her be in your fantasy only. Try to concentrate on your studies first.
2006-11-24 16:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't, wait till you graduate.
2006-11-24 16:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stare at her.
2006-11-24 16:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Being myself© 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋