Im 19 she's 17 her family never liked me. How do i tell both our familys? Im scared.
2006-11-24 15:44:06 · 19 answers · asked by Styliztik 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Got to tell them sometime. If you can make a baby have the guts to live up to it and tell your families.
2006-11-24 15:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well 1st of all you should make sure she is really pregnant then when you find out she is you 2 need to decide as a serious couple wether or not you guys want to keep the baby or get an abortion and if you want to keep it then she should sit with her parents by her self 1st and have her tell her parents and then you need to tell her parents that you are willing to give this child a great life. Yall should have better protection because this isnt a joke! Good luck to both of you.
2006-11-24 15:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by LOVE ME FOR ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I submitted a question as to how to tell my husband that I'm pregnant (i'm scared to), but your situation is a bit different. Why don't they like you? Are you afraid they will try to beat you up?
Well, if you guys were planning to elope, you two could run off and elope, get married and then call them from some far away place and tell them you are on your honeymoon, oh and by the way....
2006-11-24 16:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are scared, but you will be a daddy soon, you have to be strong for yourself, your GF and your baby. Its going to be hard, and you will be criticized SEVERELY, but if you do tell them ( especially her parents) they will have more respect for you in the future. It's not the end of the world, it might feel like it, but it really isnt. Teen pregnancy is common, just endure it now, in the future your baby will be the most important thing in your life. Trust me, a baby will change everything, if you felt grown up enough to have sex, you will be grown up to tell both families, and you will be grown up enough to stay strong. **MAKE SURE SHE IS REALLY PREGNANT BEFORE YOU TELL ANYONE** Good luck hun! ^_^
2006-11-24 15:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live, but if you are in the US, you may want to be aware, in most States, age of consent is 18 years old. You are an adult (over 18) and she is a minor. Depending on the State you live in, it is considered Statutory Rape. If this is the case, if the parents wants to press charges, they can.
In case you didn't know, this IS serious.
I won't tell you want to do, as this is your personal business. I wanted to make you aware that you may be dealing with more than angry parents.
2006-11-24 16:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with both families and be honest. Be prepared to face severe critizism. It's not the end of the world. Don't forget, your parents are human and have made their own mistakes.
2006-11-24 15:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by monica.shogreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am happy for you don't worry about what ur family thinks be honest with them I went through the same thing when i was 17 it is hard but show them that your not going to be a one of those guys that takes off,, stand up for her and yourself this is special time in your life and scary but just be honest rem the longer you wait the harder it gets
2006-11-24 15:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she is pregnant for sure before you go and tell anyone. If she ends up being pregnant though, just go to both of your families together and tell them. Better to tell them than keep it a secret. They will respect you more if you don't keep it from them.
2006-11-24 15:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
o my goodness i am in the same situation........I'm 16 and my boy friend is 18 my dad HATES him.. i mean throwing him into jail... hate him.. now i think im pg.. welp lets just see how good that's going to do.. just me thinking about telling my dad makes me sick.. BUT you have to do it.. if you sat them down and you two went over there and just straight up said she is pg and we plan on keeping it.. or not.. you being there with her shows how mature u are and how much you really care for her and shows your going to always be by her side... just stand strong .. o man and good luck.. if it goes good with you then MAYBE i have a chance.. o man.. o and who ever is saying about the minor thing ya its true and they could do it.. but really.... what parents would throw the dad or the coming grandchild in jail.. that part should be the least of your worries.. like i said my dad always told my boyfriend if he sees us together thats where he is going.. and im pg. what more can her do now .. really?
2006-11-24 16:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be ok test first.dont need to be upset if its nothing.My partners family hate me too and i have a 4 month old boy with him its not about them.Its about the both of you and the baby.stuff everyone else!!!!just know your rights
2006-11-24 15:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by ness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋