there is this guy at skewl i really like and in facte we are going out but my bestfriend hates his guts what should i do?
2006-11-24 15:26:40 · 12 answers · asked by Gracie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to realize that she isn't in this relationship with the two of you. It should be about you and him, not you him and her. People put to much credit into what other people outside of the relationship thinks or says. If you like him then that should be the only thing that matters.
-NmD!
2006-11-24 15:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar problem when I first started dating my boyfriend. Both of my besties didn't like him so I had to make separate time for them and then him. But eventually they've come around to my guy and got to know him better. Just wait or consider why your bestie hates this guy of yours, there may be a good reason why.
2006-11-24 23:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of us have been there. Frankly this is your life, right? Tell both of them how you feel and they should respect you and your words. Tell your bestfriend "Look, I know you can't stand him but I like him...just be there when I fall. If you are a friend you will always be there for me!" And that my dear, is the truth.
2006-11-24 23:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, given your spelling, I think you need to worry more about your studies and less about the guys, unless you really plan on living in a trailer park the rest of your life.
2006-11-24 23:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by TheOnlyBeldin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf is jealous because you have a b/f and she doesn't and secretly she may of wanted him for herself ... try and make sure you include her and let your b/f know that it would be in his best interest to be nice to her. if she gets out of hand w/ the hating than just remind her that you love her no matter what but that you won't tolerate her crap.
2006-11-24 23:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love before friendships.
2006-11-24 23:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chicks before *****.
hoes before bros. [ in your case=]]
maybe your friend has a good reason for not liking him.
listen to what she has to say and let her know she wil always be number one in your life.
hope it works out well!
2006-11-24 23:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by [L.C♥] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one ever said that the guy you like has to be friends with your friends. IF you like him, your friend should be happy for you.
2006-11-24 23:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by lpfanatic1009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is not dating him you are,so tell her to bug off find her own b/f to hate.
2006-11-24 23:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get them to like each other. go to a movie with both of them or something.
2006-11-24 23:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by heyyy123456789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋