I have met some women who are uncomfortable receiving oral sex, but some who like it a lot, too. It seems like the ones who like it, like it so much that I don't get the discrepancy. What is it about receiving oral sex that makes these women uncomfortable. Anal sex, I can understand. That I can definitely see as uncomfortable, even though a few like that, too. It's the discomfort with oral that I don't quite understand.
2006-11-24 15:07:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most of the time, the reason that women are uncomfortable is because the first person that gave them oral sex screwed it up, was horrible, or just made it plain awkward. That is what several women have told me. Also, some women don't find it appealing, i dated a girl studying to be a dentist and she didn't want oral because she thought it was dirty in more ways then one. It all depends where the woman is coming from, but most of the time its due to some instance in the past. Best of luck...
2006-11-24 15:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by micktobi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Comfort and liking (disliking) are two different things altogether. Oral sex is not uncomfortable for her so long the men does not push and choke her. That means the initiative is with her. Anal sex, on the other hand, may be enjoyable so long as u make it comfortable. Oral sex amounts to putting something in ur mouth which by training u associate with discharge of waste.
Are u comfortable and do u enjoy giving oral to her? If u do, she will be more willing to do it to u in return.
2006-11-24 15:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand that either. The only thing I can think of is that some women feel they have to be very close and intimate with someone first. It's just more personal. Then again, maybe some women just don't like it at all? I've never heard any of my friends complain about it though. I do know some don't like to perform the same on men.
2006-11-24 15:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One possibility could be that they themselves do not like to perform oral sex on their mate, so they convince themselves all oral sex is unlikable....Another reason, and I am guessing here is maybe they are uncomfortable with the way they think,you will be thinking about (their private part), of how it will look to you, smell to you or taste to you.....and another reason could be that they are simply inexperienced or never had it done at all....or maybe they had an ex-partner that was terrible at it... so instead giving someone else a chance they simply state they do not like it....and maybe the girl religious background simply has biased her opinion....
2006-11-24 15:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a woman has a good self image and likes her body, she will be more comfortable and relaxed about receiving oral sex. If a woman doesn't like her body, or thinks she smells, she will be more inhibited about relaxing and enjoying oral sex. Also, if a woman has only received ho-hum or lousy head, she will not be as eager to receive it as the woman who has had mind blowing oral sex. If a man gives mind blowing head, I guarantee you that no matter how self-conscious she is about you going down on her, she will lose all her inhibitions and self-consciousness.
2006-11-24 15:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not one of these women, but there are a few reasons that I can imagine...
First of all, maybe she had a partner in the past who didnt like to give it to her so she's developed some sort of fear, thinking that maybe there is something wrong with her down there...perhaps she is just feeling insecure about herself down there.
The other thing I thought of is perhaps she is scared of getting some sort of disease or infection, or maybe she is prone to getting infections and she doesnt feel comfortable telling you.
There are lots of different reasons that women dont like it. It may not always be the man's technique.
2006-11-24 15:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on their upbringing, some women are taught that their bodies are "dirty" and that their sexuality is something to be ashamed of. That enjoying themselves can be "wrong" because "good girls don't do things like that".
It may be that the women you know who like it don't have as much of a hang-up with regards to being open to their sexuality and that sex can be fun.
2006-11-24 15:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like you're a lesbian. I can appreciate a good looking, well-groomed woman, and admire her beauty. But no way would I want to have sex with her. The idea grosses me out. I'm gay. Likewise, a lesbian can admire beauty in a man, but wouldn't want to have sex with him under any circumstances. Sounds like your attraction is to women. Relax and enjoy it!
2016-05-22 23:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife hated it for three reasons:
1) My technique was probably off-base
2) She did not like the fact that a little tab of skin kept her from being in control of herself. (She was, and is, a real control freak)
3) She disliked smelling "herself" on me.
2006-11-24 15:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
some women like,others not.
2006-11-24 16:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋