I'm 20 now, and am taking my time through college. I play to wait till I'm 23, where I should be a senior in college, and I should have plenty of options to choose from in younger girls 19-21 who are still single. What do you guys think? I feel too young to meet my life companion this soon...
2006-11-24 15:03:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no such things as a "soul mate" There are plenty of compatiblle people for anyone.
2006-11-24 15:08:31 · update #1
I wouldn't do it until thirty. A lot of people go through a lot of changes in their twenties. Someone you love at twenty may not be someone you even like at thirty. Believe me at twenty I loved my wife more than anything in the world. At thirty I could not stand the sight of her, I didn't even know her anymore.
2006-11-24 15:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by tim b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
95% of women are too immature to marry before the age of 25. Because they don't know what they want. If what you want for yourself and your family becomes what she wants, then you'll be fine. Older women make better wives. But when you get married doesn't really depend on age. You want to wait until you get a career started, get ready to buy a house, or at least rent an apartment, and discuss marriage but don't even think about proposing until you have dated a woman for 2 years. Now the most important thing: make sure she has a GOOD relationship with her father.
2006-11-24 23:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by elthe3rd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One study showed that getting married before age 24 is a predictor for divorce.
Don't rush. Finish college, get a job, start saving and investing (and learning all about that). When you meet that special someone who you think you can spend the rest of your life with, through thick and through thin, then you can start to think about marriage.
If you choose to marry earlier, just make sure that you'll give the marriage your "all", and you'll be happy (even in the hard times).
2006-11-24 23:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by RolloverResistance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy life...meet people...find out what kind of women you like. Best advice is to finish college and start in your career a couple years before you plan on marrying someone.
One of the number one arguments for divorce is money. If you are out of school and making money this'll help you. Finally, by then you shoud have an idea of who you are looking for. Good luck
2006-11-24 23:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by chad t777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should settle down when you find your soul mate, when you feel confortable doing so.... and, I would advise you not contemplate such plans, as they will change with the wind.
Don't put your life on paper... let it happen. You will know when the time comes.
2006-11-24 23:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tammie R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question: Too young to meet life's companion. Although keep your options open. Sounds like you got a good head on your shoulders,focused on the future and ready to meet those goals. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS
2006-11-24 23:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure there are plenty of people you can be compatible with, but you shouldn't marry someone you can live with. You should marry the person you can't live without. There is no age that is right, when you are ready you will know.
2006-11-24 23:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe when the time is right you will meet the one you are to spend the rest of your life with. If you meet her now thats great but if you meet her later in life thats great too. Just wait till you are ready and dont rush things. When you are ready you will feel it. Goodluck
2006-11-24 23:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that your plan is brilliant.. i wish i'd have thought that way...
i an now 18 and settled..
i met him and we started dating when i was 15..
i love him but now, i have soem regrets.. cos i was so young.. (still am)..
and its scary to think that im just going to be with this one person..
waiting is a good thing, cos then, you will have better knowlwdge of what is out there..
and you get to see and do things that you wouldnt be able to do if you were settled..
i used to go to concerts and parties.. and now i dont..
i used to want to move away and go to a big college, and now im stuck looking for things that arent all that far from home..
anyways, before i start to rant.. i'll just say..
clever plan..
-kay
2006-11-25 17:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you will cut yourself short if you set a date to meet someone. You could meet the one tomorrow, or in 10 years.
If you set an age you want to meet someone then you will settle for anyone when you reach that age!!
2006-11-24 23:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by mattcolin87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋