Me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a year. Last night he wanted me to go see him but I couldn't. So he asked me to go see him and that he would wait for me. He wanted me too sneak out. However I had family over so I couldnt. He told me to please sneak out becuase it had been almost a month since we havent seen each other. I told him that to please wait til saturday so we can see each other and he told me, " sneak out please, I really wanna see you. Please, if you dont then dont whine later on." I never whine when I cant see him or when he cant see me. So what would he mean by that? He has cheated on me before so would he have meant that dont whine when he finds another girl? Today he went clubbing with his cousin and brother and didnt even bother to call me. We are sexually active together, may that be why he is still with me? I really do love him. I have forgave many of his sh*t ,and im just so tired of it. I try talking to him but I just dont know what to say 2 h
2006-11-24 14:56:25 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ ♠ ♣ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well from what i am seeing. if he cheated on you and is mad that you couldnt see him which is stupid, then hunny, you deserve better. you arent worth that ****. i know how you feel believe me, ive been through this almost exactly the same thing. but seriously, if hes gonna do that to you, hes probably not worth it. it sounds to me like all he wants is to get some multiple times and yeah. tell him get over yourself and if you dont love me for me then get lost. even tho that sounds harsh, and might be really hard to do because you love him, [believe me i know how it is] sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same.seriously. you deserve better. everyone does. good luck. hope i helped. :]
2006-11-25 02:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by yourrad_letsmakeout♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has already cheated on you once, there's the chance he may do it again. At this point in life, you are too young to settle down. Maybe it's time for you both to see other people. Go out and experience life. Don't tie yourself down to one person at this age. I'm not saying be promiscious or anything. All I'm saying is that though you may love this guy (or think you do...I thought I was in love when I was 16, I wasn't actually in love for the first time until I was 20) you've still got a lot of life in front of you. He should understand that you were with family and if he can't do that he's not really respecting you and your decisions.
2006-11-24 15:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by lori_a_esser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that he does not have good intentions. U need to break it off soon. Y r u sneaking around anyway? U should try to find a guy who your parents like so u dont have to sneak around. Imrove yourself
2006-11-24 15:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gonna be honest with you; since he hasn't seen you in a month, he obviously wanted you to sneak out for you to give him some nookie. He's trying to threaten you and have you participate with him or else he's going to go out and cheat on you.
I think if your boyfriend is bold enough to tell you what he did, you should be bold enough to stand up for yourself and clearly state what you want from your 'relationship' and stand up for yourself. Explain to him why you are tired and what you need, if he can't come through for you, you need to let him go.
2006-11-24 18:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>_< please please please listen to me on this! Please dump him! First, if you still have to sneak out of the house to see your BF, then you are obviously too young to even be dealing with boys, let alone be sexually active. I am guessing you are in H.S now, please, just leave him. If he has already cheated on you, he probably is doing it again. If not, he will soon. You might feel as if you love him, and maybe you do, but chances are that you dont. Just leave the loser, I can guarantee that this isnt the guy that you will be spending the rest of your life with. Good luck hun! ^_^
2006-11-24 15:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off why are you wasting your time w/ such a loser??? I can't even believe you forgave him for cheating on you... once a cheater, always a cheater! anyways, I think you should break up w/ him and it does sound like he is controlling and maybe he feels guilty that he is cheating on u and thats why he was forcing u to see him.... and it does totally sound like hes cheating on u.... Break up w/ him before you get your heart broken again!
2006-11-24 16:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by chi_twnchica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever sneak out. My mom snook (if thats a word) out and on her way to her boyfriend's house, and she got kidnapped and raped.If I were you, id break up with him. If hes cheated and hes still with you, obviously he only wants one thing: SEX. Tell him you dont feel like doing it.
2006-11-24 18:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by lightning! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay please listen to me on this! leave him now! you are too young to take any guys **** cus believe me this isnt the guy your going to be with the rest of your life...I know how hard it is to leave someone your use to,comfortable with and care for and its hard but you have to do it for you! you dont need to be with anyone or settle until you find the best guy for you and dont settle for less! do all of us girls a favor and dump the loser! and yes I guarentee hes a cheater!
2006-11-24 15:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by jessangel8705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too young to be worrying about stuff like this. Stop having premarital sex, and don't be so worried about having a boyfriend at this point in your life.
2006-11-24 15:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some boys are like that my friend and i can walk through the mall and thse boys will be like hey come oveer and we will be like no were lesbians(were not lesbians)and they will just beg so i know where you are coming from i can even be with my boyfriend and that still happen so
2006-11-24 15:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Flecia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋