I always had hot girls that liked me... but whenever they seemed to like me, i always went for the better girl and never got that. and when i tried going back to the girls that liked me, they dont like me anymore ='(. So what should i do? I'm not SO desperate but im a bit lonely. plus im a very eligible bachelor... not to sound like a jackass but i think im good looking, rich and above all a great personality. I'm a pretty quiet dude though and i dont like to talk much about what i have but ppl know.
2006-11-24 14:53:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
find someone better
2006-11-24 14:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by brittany51o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops! It sounds like you may have over-rated your own attractiveness....or else there is something else about you that makes women flee once they get to know you. I'm impressed that you at least seem to recognize your own mistakes. You've passed up girls that were crazy about you in order to pursue someone that you labeled as a better catch. Then when it didn't work out...you assumed that the other girls would be 'waiting in the wings' to catch your fall. The ones you thought would be there whenever you wanted them no longer trusted you...and no longer felt desirable...or they thought you'd not be loyal and pursue someone else at such future point. Loyalty & trust are big issues in any relationship and I suggest you be mindful of that fact the next time you start a relationship with a woman. There's nothing you can do about past mistakes, but unless you want to be alone forever you'll treat a woman the same way you'd like to be treated.
2006-11-24 23:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... I don't doubt you are good looking, but geez, stop comparing them girls, and look for quality, instead of comparison. Your motives are a bit shallow, so it's no wonder the 'better girl' is not interested, and the girl who likes you at first thinks you're a jerk. Don't compare women, they don't like to be compared to each other. You broke the first rule about dealing with women. Get it right next time. Go for someone who likes you, dangit!
2006-11-24 23:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a girl that you have stuff in common with. You'll never find "the one" if you're only going out with a girl for her looks. Granted you need to have physical attraction but it's up to you to look for something deeper as well.
2006-11-24 22:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Honey7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter if you are rich?
You should be going for substance not looks. keep being quiet.
girls tend not to like coky men at least not any girls who are worth dating.
mayeb you should go for the one who is the smartest kindest and sweetest!
beauty fades and you may be stuck with some bitchy woman the rest of your life haah
good luck
2006-11-24 22:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by www.myspace.com/yourmomentofjen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw that's sad. but hey i would go for u. anywayz i think u should look for a girl that is not interested in your money or looks they should go for your personality. i think u should tell the girls who u would date that u wouldn't want them just for ur looks.
good luck honey. i hope u find someone that really cares for your personality.
2006-11-24 22:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried just casual dating? you're not going steady with either of them you just take them out and have a great time with them. try that out. maybe you'll find someone you'd love to go steady with.
2006-11-24 22:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by small one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time go for the girl that likes you
2006-11-24 22:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u never heard the saying the grass always looks greener on the other side well it is not always so
2006-11-24 23:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by trashdog1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know
2006-11-24 22:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by iwantapug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋