my Best Friend said she was gonna b-come a crip i told her "a smat wonan knowz what shez getten into b-4 she does"........she told me a smart female knoz when to shut th F@#k up ......long story short......i lost it after she said that and.........we start fighting.......this is the first time we ever hit each other and the end cops were called......and on lie i love her like a sister.......but i kno what that kind of life gangs bring and its not 4 her ......and she has no idea what shez getting into.......(A.)how do i get her to see that b-4 she gets hurt...(B.) do u think we can every be koo agin??
2006-11-24 14:51:30 · 9 answers · asked by c4chirs 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Atleast she is not trying to be a blood. But anway your friend is crazy to [join] a gang she is throwing her life away literally. The only way she is getting out is in a box or nearly beaten to death. And I think you should work on your horrible grammar.
2006-11-24 14:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Number one is always, pray. You can also do some research for her about the gang. Slap her with it(not literally), anytime she is around. Just put a fact out there. Also you can clue her family into what is going on. Do an intervention. And I do not know about whether you and her can ever be friends again. That is up to you two. That depends on how willing you are to forgive each other. Hopefully, sooner rather than later :)
2006-11-24 22:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by ms.melancholy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I have learned of gangs comes down to this:
It is a contest to see who can break the most laws. The one who breaks the most is the 'coolest'. This is not a good thing. If you really care about her, you'll wait for her to come to her senses. If she decides she was wrong she'll probably be glad to be your friend again. But don't hold your breath. People do stupid sht.
Also, please, please please learn to write. I can barely read this and you're perpetatuing a ghetto stereotype.
P.S. It took me a second to figure out what a crip was. the only gangs here in Chicago are... pretty much the Kings, the Surenos, and the G. D. s.
Also, prayer isn't going to do jack schitt but waste your time; if God's gonna fix stuff he's gonna do it, bothering him isn't going to hurry it along.
2006-11-24 23:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Asuza 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right that gang life is not good for anyone.
There's not much you can do but tell her parents that she wants to join a gang, apologize for getting into a fight with her, and tell her that you love her and want to be her friend. But don't apologize for warning her that it's a bad idea.
If you know that she's going to commit any crimes, report her to the cops. You'd be doing her a favor by preventing her from getting in trouble.
2006-11-24 22:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend is a crip and its scary cuz she gets in alot of trouble and did alot of stuff and she always came for help .. at one point she messed up bad and almost got shot.. so try to stay away it sounds mean but if u were in my position u;d be freaked out and responsible for her life
2006-11-24 23:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow I dont know what to tell you. I just am leaving this to say im sorry and I dont know what to say but your right its not worth it. stay by her side and try to help her but if it gets too bad stay out of there so you dont get yourself hur tor introuble becuzz you may be best friends but after awhile when someones involved in something like that theyre mind goes wacked and well they may just forget who really loves them (aka you) and not care
2006-11-24 22:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by just me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you expect to effectively communicate with her-when you apparently can't even form a whole sentence in proper English?
Lose the Ebonics and she may take you as a credible witness.
2006-11-24 22:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends where your at becuz there only real big in cali and if shes gonna put in work or be fake
2006-11-28 19:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really like to use periods, don't you? ................. I would detach myself from her. Good Riddance I say. Also, I'm not sure what it's like to be "koo" but I don't think so.
2006-11-24 23:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋