When having sex, If I'm ready to stop do I tell him that I am ready to stop or quit when he wants to. Even if it goes on for a while longer and I don't want to???
2006-11-24 14:49:10 · 10 answers · asked by HOTTIE 101 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
how old r u....ur other question said 13...are you still 13 cuz that is wayyyy to young to even have sex...
as for the question, maybe try an excuse like ur hungry or you need to go to the store soon.
2006-11-24 16:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what makes you comfortable, but I must say ----- if you're in the middle of sex and decide you don't want to continue -- maybe you shouldn't be starting it in the first place. That's pretty weird. If you do tell him to stop and he doesn't - that's rape. I think you need to cool it until you grow up.
2006-11-24 14:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ducky S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever makes you comfortable...But if your gonna tell him to stop, then why do it..?¿ I'm sure he would stop if you wanted to, but then he might experience blue balls, which doesnt feel too good on the testicles...If he doesnt stop, then thats rape..I dont see why you wouldnt want to stop sex..It feels soo GOOD...! Make sure you use a condom, or ur on bc...
2006-11-24 17:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to wait it out as long as you can, even men get upset when they cant finsh their business. Also you dont want to give him blue *alls i heard it can really hurt. If you cant take it a minute longer try doing something else to "get him there" that way you both are happy.
2006-11-24 14:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by My3kin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex should be comfortable for both. if you are ready to stop tell him
2006-11-24 20:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP HAVING SEX IMMEDIATELY. If you even have to ask a question like this, it indicates your immaturity for it IN THE FIRST PLACE.
2006-11-24 14:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by DONTSTARTNONE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know you want to stop. He might be offended, but if he respects your feelings, then he will stop.
2006-11-24 14:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is to be able to tell each other what you want... usually if im almost done and hes not , just ask him, can you ***? that tells them to kinda hurry up..and maybe you can finish together..
2006-11-24 14:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by s p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you don't let him walk all over you. Its as much about you as it is him, and if he cares about you at all, he won't have a problem with it.
2006-11-24 14:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Nick Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop...he will finish much faster than you
2006-11-24 14:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋