What's so wrong with having a physical preference for a mate based on race and features? Some people like short types, muscular types, etc.....I'm a black male attracted to fair skinned petite girls. Always have been. So what?. My white girlfriends have also confided that they are attracted to dark men. Of course the rest is all about personalities, chemistry, love, and how we get along. But how is this any different from people who are simply attracted to their own race. People who look just like them? Some people like the "other". And the stereotype of black men dating white girls for status doesn't fly. I'd rather be with a fine sister who I'm proud to show off any day over a lackluster white girl. That whole thing is a myth. People say sometimes (which I think is a lie) that race doesn't matter. But for some people, like me, it's a major draw. And I'm not afraid to talk about it with my partners.
2006-11-24 14:38:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I don't care what anyone says, the physical attraction comes first. I've always been drawn to guys with dark hair and blue eyes. Finding out what kind of person they are either extends the attraction or repels me - but you don't find out until you're drawn to the person first. I have friends who like blondes, or long hair, whatever... So you like petite white ladies. Big deal! The people who DO think it's a big deal are stupid and shallow.
The hell with 'em - don't let them bother you...
2006-11-24 14:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone somewhere will always have a problem with it. More so with children.I think it has more to do with education than color usually. I have dated outside my race and it was awkward.I have thought about other nationalities as well but I would prefer my next girlfriend to speak English and be educated and not be objectionable to my family.I have been warned by certain individuals not to marry black or asian women.I can however marry a jewish or american indian and for some reason this is more acceptable. They didn't say I couldn't date them though.
2006-11-24 14:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has preferences when it comes to sexual attractions. I'm a heavy woman and have had men come right out and tell me they would never date a fat woman.
Then, when I tell people I am attracted to darker skinned men (Latinos and Blacks) they tell me I'm racist. I just love the visual effect of darker skin against my very fair skin.
What in blazes is the difference? Some people have fetishes for strange things too. I have a friend whose husband is with her because she took her shoes off in front of him once and he has a foot fetish. LOL
When it comes to sexual attraction, it's not about race, but about preferences for a sexual partner.
Now.... where is a good Latino/Black guy who likes heavier women.... around 50 yrs old? :o) And oh..... size DOES matter! LOL
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-24 14:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that there is anything wrong with dating a person outside your own race. Weare all human beings no matter what skin color, race, religious backgrounds. I am a caucasion dating a middle eastern guy. If i were you, i wouldn't let other peoples opinions bother you. It is what's inside their heart that counts.
2006-11-24 14:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by jenn1801 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with your preference as long as you are not judgemental to others for their preferences. Always remember that no matter what you do there will always be critics. Live your life and be happy for the choices you make and let the rest of the world kiss you toosh...
2006-11-24 14:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about preference your right, and people that can't handle the whole race thing need to get over it and not worry about who other people date unless they are paying their bills
2006-11-24 14:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me don't let any dark skinned women tell you it's wrong.I'm part black myself.I have always love white women,light eyes,light hair,and I love their thin noses.People say well race don't matter it's not about color.Well making me part black and my skin is white,I still consider myself black.I have always loved white girls.
2006-11-24 15:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by Being myself© 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah who cares? it particularly is purely a decision. I married a white guy and would have purely evaluate relationship White, Asian, Hispanic and local American. that doesn't make me racist. don't be ignorant. it particularly is purely a decision. human beings like what they like.
2016-10-04 08:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it... I think it is pretty natural. People who have an issue with interracial dating are racist, in my opinion. We are all global citizens, and love (or real love at least) does not discriminate colour, race, ethinicity, etc,
2006-11-24 15:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mawarda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that there is anything wrong with it I personally wouldnt date outside my race but that is my prefrence. I feel like your heart has no eyes it doesnt see skin color or anything else.
2006-11-24 14:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋