2006-11-24 14:03:10 · 16 answers · asked by bleep.bleeper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why do you fight? What do you fight over?
Perhaps you should be the one to compromise first
2006-11-24 14:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my sister and her friend. That's their whole relationship. I think you guys should try to compromise your arguments so they don't get big and horrible. Except when they go at it they nearly kill one another or me who just so happens to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. I love this thing it says "A friend will think a friendship is over when you have a fight, but a true friend knows it's not really relationship without having a fight." So just calm down and think about what the point of the fight is.
2006-11-24 22:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Wolf_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend and i have the same problem but we always end up working it out by talking it out and we have discovered that we fight over the dumbest things and now since we are older we dont fight as much, maybe you guys just need to talk it out and discover what makes you guys fight and decide to avoid things that make you fight.
2006-11-24 22:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by adh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yous need to listen to one another and comunicate better, try not to yell and give each other the time to tell their story. Comparmize is always a good way, if you try they will try. Focus on why yous are friends in the frist place and talk about how you dont want to fight anymore, how its a waste of time.
2006-11-24 22:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her nicely that you would gladly love the fights to stop and that you call it quits. That should settle the whole problem, but if she still doesn't want to listen and carries on picking fights with you, just ignore her or if you can't, erm.....maybe you could always play pranks on her again and again, again and again or knock her tooth out.lol. no jk....ok if she still doesn't want to stop, you can always make a report to your school's headmaster/mistress or call the police and send her to jail lol.
2006-11-24 22:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Clemence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what I do with my friend that likes to argue. If it doesn't matter to me, I don't argue. For example, she said they changed a street name and I know they didn't, what difference does it make, so I don't argue. Some people just have to be right. If you want to keep her/him as a friend, pick the things that are important to you to argue about.
2006-11-24 22:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk. try to figure out what's really behind why you 2 fight all the time and see what can be done to fix that.
2006-11-24 22:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by sexycanadiangirl87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the power to not fight. One person can not fight by themselves. All you have to do is say, I'm not going to fight with you.
2006-11-24 22:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by art_tchr_phx 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she can't then you need to give in and ignore it. Or the best way is to tell her how you feel, that you are sick of it. Try the truth it always works for me.
2006-11-24 22:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG,me and my friends r always in fights.i mean a lot.
it pisses me off but we always make up and then were ok so try talking 2 ur friend and they might 4give u if u did anything.
2006-11-24 22:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by Chuckie Bronson. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋