I need Help??
My bf is going away for two weeks and i cant have a orgasm by my self and i cant buy toys. any tips
please help and nothing stupid
2006-11-24 14:00:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Why can;t you have an orgasm by yourself?
I would actually experiment and investigate yourself to see what you are capable of
2006-11-24 14:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems a little weird that you can't have an orgasm by your self. For a lot of women that is the about the only time they do have one.
If you can't buy a toy you can use some house hold items. A lot of cooking utensils have great handles. You need to find one that is a good length, if it is not thick enough you can put a sock or two over it, then put a condom over the socks, feels great, you can go as thick as you want.
2006-11-25 22:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you orgasm by yourself? Keep trying...fantasize about your boyfriend or anything else that turns you on...masturbation is the only truly safe sex there is...
Why can't you buy a toy? If you only orgasm vaginally, then you need something that can stimuate you internally and a toy would be perfect...also, it may help you orgasm clitorally since the toys can vibrate and rotate and do things our fingers don't do (at least not well).
You ask for help, then turn around and say "I can't" so what do you expect from us?
If you really want to...you can...and you will...
2006-11-24 22:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need penetration to orgasm and can't buy a toy I would suggest this. Take a hairbrush that has a round handle. Wash it thoroughly to remove any germs. Lube it with KY jelly and try to make yourself orgasm by inserting it very carefully in and out of your vagina. This should work.
2006-11-25 11:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by puzzled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to get that big O. Hey why can't you wait till he returns home? Just gotta have one? I feel you girfriend. But I think it's gonna be kinda hard to do that if you don't like to use toys. Are you in touch with yourself? I hope you know what I mean when I say that(playing with your kitty kat). If not, then maybe you better find you a side line man to step in while big daddy is gone. If you don't want to result to cheating then, just imagine he's there and focus on yall sex, and it will happen, (I hope). Good Luck Ma
2006-11-24 22:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If no toys and you can't do it yourself try the shower head when you bath. On another theme I would recommend a candle, watch a porn between two lesbians, or just relax nude in your bed and place soft music on the recorder and think of your friend while you do a massage. Or better yet invite a ex boyfriend over..No that is not stupid!..
2006-11-24 22:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go two weeks without having an orgasm?
Use your fingers. Find your spot and work it.
2006-11-24 22:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. My husband was in Japan for two years and Iraq for seven months. Two weeks is nothing and if you can't wait then I suggest buying a dildo.. or making a homemade one.
2006-11-24 22:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use the bathtub. turn the faucet on and position yourself so its hitting you at the right spot. u have to lay back for this obviously. the pressure of the water will feel good and hopefully you have one. but i mean; u have to learn what turns you on and explore your body. you should be able to make yourself orgasm. whatever turns u on and is healhty.
2006-11-24 22:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by LALALOLO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may b graphic, but i have the same problem...umm...i had to buy a vibrator though...some girls who cant orgasm can try a clitoral orgasm, because it is much more sensitive...dont worry though...that just means it'll b even better when he gets home ; ) a hand-held massager is great!
2006-11-24 22:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Raven S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋