Love or Lust-- Your Life?

Question

As a teen, were you more attracted towards love or lust?
Today, are you attracted towards love or lust?

Which one seems to come in your hand first...love..or lust?

In your opinion, is that a bad thing or a good thing? DOes it hurt you?

Answer 1

Well...it always feels like love, but it's always lust, unless it has a sad ending, because love starts with a hug, grows with a kiss, and ends in a tear, but lust is just always there...
For those of you out there with troubles...it's okay to kiss a fool, and it's okay to let a fool kiss you, but never let a kiss fool you.
Be careful with whom you show love towards, and don't let them end it in a tear...

Answer 2

Lust

Answer 3

When I was a teen it was about lust (which I thought was love but too young to see the difference). Now that I am a little older it's about love. Love is what lasts, lust is only for a moment of time.

Answer 4

When I was younger I think I often confused love with lust. I was (as are most teenage boys) hormonally challenged, and distinguishing between the two was pretty much impossible.

So I suppose early on lust was paramount.

Today, many years later, I can differentiate in most cases, though I think I still get confused occasionally.

As for which is better - well for a quickie with a stranger - lust is the driving force, I assume for my partner as well.

However, my preference is a loving friend who becomes a lover as well - so now love comes first.

As for hurt - either can lead to hurt, but I think that the risk is worth it. Getting rejected when lust is involved, at least now, is not really a big deal - but rejection when love is involved hurts, sometimes a lot.

When I was younger, rejection, regardless, was painful, though again I think when I was in puppy love, it hurt more than when I simply had a stiffy for a girl and she blew me off.

Just my .01

-dh

Answer 5

As a teen, I didn't know what lust, was.Now, at my age, I have finally learned the difference....there is someone I care about...the lust that I feel for him is born out of the deep respect, friendship and love I have for him. When you have all 4 feelings, you've got it all, baby.

Answer 6

Lust and it's a bad thing but i like it

Answer 7

As a teen, I was consumed with lust (just like every Teenage male).But as a whole human being,I loved as well. Now, just as then, I have the capacity to experience both simultaniously.

Answer 8

Lust is everywhere , all the time.
Love takes time to grow.
I have a theory................................................
You are like your hand... one Hand... 5 fingers.
one is your physical self, one mind, one spirit, Heart and Soul
(or whatever)
NOW>>>>WHICHEVER YOU ALLOW TO LEAD,
ALL the others, MUST EVENTUALLY follow.
You must remain at one with yourself.
Alot of trouble starts with a mind contorting into all twisted positions to logically make sense of where another has led.(That is it's job, like an attorney to justify & explain.) Or a spirit broken, or a heart in love with the wrong type of person
Where your body leads, everything else WILL follow,and vice versa, Lead with your Head, and your heart mind body spirit WILL follow.
Better yet let your Spirit lead.
Letting Lust lead...unless every part can immediatly agree.....Bad!! (they will go along if it kills them!) no choice!
If ALL cannot come to agreement in the beginning,better to back away, you are asking for BIG TROUBLE!!

Answer 9

i'm 23 years old virgin. I on no account kiss a guy. stable which you would be a virgin. save your delight and on no account compromise/supply up your values. it extremely is problematical to avert lust because of the fact adult adult males are seen animals. maximum adult adult males will look at women individuals and choose in spite of if or no longer they love her or no longer--it extremely is lust. After a at the same time as, while females and adult adult males individuals get to be attentive to each and each others. They advance plenty extra deeper thoughts for each others--it extremely is love.

Answer 10

Lust...