I have a serious question im 13 and well?

Question

i never been on a date or had a boy friend whats wrong i mean i dont think im ugly everyone says im just shy what do i do at they skool dances im so shy to dance what should i do

Answer 1

I'm thirteen too. I used to feel the same way, but we are only thirteen. Most girls haven't been on a serious date or had a serious boyfriend until much older years. I'm pretty shy too, but I'm letting life be the way it's supposed to be. Don't rush it, because boys our age may be cute, but immature.

But, if you are 39 and still talking about the same thing, then you have a problem.

Answer 2

Don't worry
Im 14 and I havent had more than one date before
Trust me, it's a lot easier not having a boyfriend
I've seen my best friend suffer soo much from all her boyfriends and i've decided im kind of lucky
I think dating is better off for 16 and 17 year olds
And dont worry, you'll get a date when you're a little older
You might just need to mature a little (especially the guys. they take a looong time to mature)
;) hope this helps

happy holidays

Answer 3

HONEY! first off..i wouldnt say your age online :) bad idea. but ill let you go on that one ;)
anyways, its not a big deal! you apparently have some self confidence if you dont think your ugly! and if you have confidence there is no reason for you to be shy!
shyness is just a way to cover up insecurity by not showing anything!
just be free girl!
if you really want a guy, just be outrageous!
:)
and the school dance problem, well just dance! have fun grab your friends and dance like you were at a club! and if you dont see any guys going near you back, back, back it up to them and just rubbbb yo booty in their face ;). hhahaha.
HOPE THAT HELPED! muahhhh!

Answer 4

guys love it when girls flirt with them. make the guy you like feel special... at dances and stuff hang out with single guys, hang all over them, then, the best way to see if a guy likes you, give your number, tell him to call you! if you get a call that night, talk about past relationships, learn about his family, interests, etc. i had this same problem when i was in the 6th grade... now im in a nearly five month relationship in 8th. when you do get a boyfriend, try to make it LAST. guys dont want girls that get with and break up constantly. Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

just sit back and relax!!! let the boys come to you that is what i do!!! and at dances tons of guys ask me.... I'm not saying that I'm gorgeous but i let them do the asking..... and , the whole boyfriend thing.... it is actually not that fun having a bf unless you get way into it so what I'm saying is stay single so you can flirt more then find out who you really like the most!!!!!!! and if you want to ask a guy out... then go for it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and if they say no, then don't be sad just think in your mind..... he wasn't the cutest guy that I've seen anyway..... and I'm just way to good for him!!!!

Answer 6

in case you recognize this is incorrect, then do not. you will finally end up regretting it. you're too youthful to be relationship somewhat, much less having intercourse. Hormones do this yet you could not bypass f****** each quite woman in basic terms on the grounds which you have hormones.

Answer 7

I'm fourteen and also very shy. Trust me, the guys come around. I learned that this year.

Answer 8

get out more. be more social. im 13 and all i know is to go out and hang with people you feel comfortable with. they can help you meet people and relax and you wont feel so shy. join clubs. anything !

happy holidays
much love

Answer 9

you are too young to have a boyfriend. i think u should concentrate more on your studies.your whole life depends on your studies. boyfriend anytime you can get but once the time is gone then that time u cant get. concentrate more on education.

Answer 10

You are 13 I wouldn't worry about it. You don't need a boyfriend, you are still young...