Last night my friend passed away...Everytime I dream about somebody getting married , someone always dies...I had been feeling a great pressure and a bad feeling that something was gonna happen...I never knew it was going to be her...I have so many things going on with me right now...I'm sad that shes gone and I still can't believe it...i feel awful...I don't want to sleep becuz im so afraid of dreaming and loosing yet again someone else who I love...This has been the 7th funeral I've gone to in the last two months and I don't think I could keep doing this...I don't feel like I'm strong enough to loose someone else...
2006-11-24 13:03:34 · 11 answers · asked by SEXYCHULA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The only thing you can do is remember those you have lost, but don't dwell on them. We carry a piece of spirit from everyone we will ever know and everyone we meet will carry a piece of our spirit. It is what provides a sense of immortality as we pass from the physical world we continue on in the hearts and minds of those we leave behind.
If you imagine your lost loved ones as being in heaven/hell than they are truely lost to you for you have chosen to forget who they are and assume they are somewhere far from you. If you think of only the good/bad things they have done than you cling to an illusion and ignore the truth of who they are. You must remember not only the things you liked about them, but the things you hated about them too. By sharing memories you add to the spirit of your friend for all that knew them, for each piece you all possess provides a better picture of who your friend truely was.
Continue to live your life, and when you come across something that reminds you of your friend then think of them, remember those events of the past and let the spirit of your friend live again in your heart and mind. Instead of feeling sad, think about what they might say, for the moment you remember them they are there with you once again in your life.
2006-11-24 13:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Rukh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, firt off, it's not your fault. These things do happen, as sorrowful as they are. I'm sorry for your loss, but you didn't have anything to do with it. You couldn't have stopped it, and didn't forsee it. I have hundreds of different images flash across my mind a night and some of them keep me from sleeping well. But I do not try to relay one picture to what goes on in real life. I know that dreams are our minds trying to put things into perspective or settle itself out. Sleep and dreams keeps us from going insane, not the other way around....hehe Anyway, I hope you come to realize this and I'm sure that the deaths will stop eventually.
2006-11-24 21:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having some one you love pass away always has a big effect on some one but its not your fault it was going to happen even if you had the dream or not dont be so hard on your self think of all the great time you had with that person and good memories will help you gain strenght hope it helps take care byebye
2006-11-24 21:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by hele_val_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, no, it is NOT your fault. Your dreams don't cause the terrible loss of your loved ones. Things may seem coincidental, but the demises are not consequences of your dream. You just happen (unfortunately) to have the ability to sense things before they happen. There are others in your circle who are grieving and feeling low down like you. They need you for strength as much as you need them. Please look out for them.
2006-11-24 21:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Earlier you were asking what we thought you should do for your 21st birthday. This seems pretty sudden considering. Did you just find out really really recently, becuase focusing on your birthday just prior to asking this seems a little odd.
Death comes at strange times and sometimes frequently. It's unpredictability is one of the reasons we should cherish life.
2006-11-24 21:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my chiuhuahua of six years, but it is nothing like what your going through. In the lastyear, I went to six funerals, and the only way to stop hurting is to pray for the person and to make sure that everyone that you know you treat with love, respect, and forgvigness.
2006-11-24 21:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that your deams are causing this...maybe it is a sign or forewarning but they cant cause the death...but i is so easy to find a way to blame yourself for a loss this great...you should get some professional help to help you get through this...i wish you luck and am sorry for your losses
2006-11-24 21:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-25 09:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this life we have on earth is just a vapor of what we have next to come. It's a cycle. You are not to blame, I would just pray everyday and do some soul searching.
2006-11-24 21:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault.I can understand how this is so difficult for you.You need someone to talk to.In time it will get easier.
2006-11-24 21:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋