Is that stupid to be a teen parent because your still young?

Answer 1

Only if you continue to act young, and irresponsibly.

Answer 2

Things in life happen for a reason. You may not know what that reason is, you just have to put it in God's hands and pray for the best. It is not stupid but irresponsable because your young and have a lot more adventures ahead of you that you cannot fullfill due to being a young parents. But on the other hand, having a child will also mature you in ways you never thought anything could. Don't let anyone tell you that it's stupid or wrong because being a young parent happens every day and they happen for a reason. Being a young parents has its advantages and disadvantages, but don't let anything bring you down for you brought another life into the world. Have faith, be strong, and realize that you have to grow up know for you are going to be a parent. Congradulations and I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 3

most teens don't choose to have kids, their usually unplanned. but, everyone makes mistakes, so is it right to judge someone just because their young and made a mistake? the answer is, no. God is the only one who judges and if God can forgive me of all the sins i have made and will make then i think we can look over the fact that someone made a choice to have sex and got pregnant. now, i'm not saying all teen parents are "good" parents, but some are. they didn't choose abortion, right? they gave their baby at a chance at life. i give all the young parents out there alot of credit (the ones who keep and put up their baby for adoption.). they could of just as easily aborted the baby, but didn't. so, my answer is yes, they might of made a mistake of having sex at a young age, but that doesn't make them stupid. and no one should ever look at them for being stupid, maybe some people should look back into their past and then say if all their mistakes made them stupid.

Answer 4

No the choice you made to have unprotected sex was stupid. Don't get me wrong I made the same bad choice. I'm not ateen though I'm 22 years old. Now is th time you decided what you wanna do about it. I had a friendwhen I was 12 get pregnant. She had her baby at 13 and I don't know what ever happened to her after her baby was 1 I neversaw her again. We moved she moved something. I won't lie and say it was easy for her. She missed out on partys and dances, boyfriends and just being a kid. Kids wanna growup so fast I know I was the same way. As soon as I hit 13 I thought I was old enough to do whatever I wanted. All I got myself was trouble. My friends and family lost alot of respect for me as did I. When you are a teenager I know its confusing you don't know if you are an adult or a child. But believe me its better to take things slow and wait until you are old enough to do grown up things to do them. Sex is nothing if it isn't with someone you love. Honestly I though m mother was an idiot when she told me this. But now I here I am agreeing with everything she told me. Stay in school. Even if you keep your baby. And don't ever do drugs they aren't worth the little bit of fun you think you are having. Drugs are for low life losers and you are about to become a parent yourself.

Answer 5

If you are both thinking of having children in your teenage, you might want to think again. If youa re bored there are lots of other more fun things to do at that age, like see the world, for example - or get a puppy.

While there are some advantages in being a young parent, as in participating with your children more, the disadvantages of early & heavy life responsibilities are more.

One of the real problems is that you haven't yourselves reached the age of rational reason and picked your own life paths. This happens as you emerge into full adulthood in your 20's and consolidates as you enter your 30s. It is a nice time as you finally get to know who you really are, and how you live your life thereafter depends on how you see yourself at this age.

While I think bringing up a family is the most important, challenging and rewarding thing you will ever do with your life, there is plenty of time in your late 20s/early thirties for that particular joy and you will appreciate it so much more!

Answer 6

No. It is not stupid. If you are committed to being a good and loving parent. You can do anything you put your mind to. Do the right thing personally and professionally. Make the best possible future for your child. It take s a lot of sacrifice . Being a good parent is difficult if you do not live a decent life. If you know right from wrong and are willing to work to do the right thing, you will do ok. You cannot just talk the talk, you have to walk the walk if you want to raise a decent moral person with character. A mom

Answer 7

No! Just know that alot will change. Alot of things that you were able to do as a teen will not be an option once you become a parent. Everything you do will have to be for that child. Just remember to finish high school, that way you will have no problems finding employment to support you and your child.

Answer 8

I don't think it's stupid, unless you have nowhere to go and don't have enough money to feed it and if your parents don't agree. I think having kids as a teen has its disadvantages and advantages. First your child won't think you are uncool when he/she grows up, but if you have to drop out of school to have a child it is definitely stupid people should have a career before having kids so you can give them whatever they need.

Answer 9

You are young and not completely educated. Finish high school and college first. This way you can provide more support to your family. Being a single mom without an income is stupid.

Answer 10

it isn't the smartest chioce to make, but if it happens, if you really want that child you would have to grow up real fast, because a child cannot take care of a child. My sister had a baby when she was a teenager, and I'm not saying this happens all the time but he is 5 years old now and in my mother and fathers custody. I have a 6month old and i'm 21. I wasn't quite ready, but alot of things have changed in my life. My son is the center of my world.

Answer 11

Pregnancy should be the last thing on a teenager's mind. I do not understand why anyone will not get on birth control and use condoms.
I think lot of teenage girls/boys that have kids well the grandparents are the ones usually that ends up raising them so i do not see why they even have sex if they do not want to tale care of a kid.