how to get rid of m jealousy for her?

Question

my name is tom me and my girlfriend have ben togather for 2 months i am17 she is 14 lol i know youngings but i despritly need advice i realy love her and i cant take my mind off of her cause im crazy about her and shes the same about me but i get jealous of her around other guys cause she is only14 she sas she would never leave me but i get jealous and scared about things i cant say i dont trust her cause i do bt it depends i trust her in some ways like i know she wouldent do any thig to hurt me cause i know she loves me but sometimes i feel like if she was in the right mood she would. she bowls for a team and a leage she has a lot of guy friends she gives them hugs a lot and throws her arms around some of them that she clames to be like brother and sisters with but i get jealous and get mad cause my jealosy throughs me off and makes me mad i try to get over it cause i dont want to argu u know so i keep it inside i let her know how jealous i get with her am i being to jealous help m

Answer 1

you contridict your self here continuously, your not jealous then you are then your not then you are? your girl is 14 you are 17,believe me most girls that age think it is great to be with an older boy and wont jepardise this so dont be jealous, if she is in a team then it is a bonding thing when they hug a bit like footballers when scoring a goal, dont be jealous just keep telling her you love her and look after her and make sure there is no hanky panky until she is ready and the correct age, you sound sensible however so i trust you will do this, most of all be happy, you are young and so is your girl, believe me you will probably feel like this about many more girls before your 30.

Answer 2

WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS GET A FRIEND YOUR OWN AGE, SHE IS TOO YOUNG FOR YOU ANYWAY. THIS IS A BAD SIGN. IF YOU CAN'T DATE IN YOUR OWN AGE GROUP YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. AND YOU ARE JEALOUS, YOU NEED SOME HELP, I KNOW ALREADY YOU WILL NEVER SEE WHERE YOU ARE WRONG TO BE DATING A CHILD. TALK TO SOME ONE WHO WILL TELL YOU THE TRUTH, YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS WITH THAT CHILD. I KNOW YOU SHOULD NEVER TRY TO HAVE SEX WITH THIS CHILD. PLEASE STOP AND GET WITH SOME ONE YOUR OWN AGE. YOUR GUY FRIENDS DON'T TELL YOU ABOUT YOU BEING TOO OLD FOR THIS LITTLE GIRL? I ASK OF YOU AGAIN TO PLEASE LEAVE THIS CHILD ALONE AND LET HER GROW UP. WHERE IS HER PARENTS WHILE YOU ARE RUNNING BEHIND THEIR DAUGHTER. IT SEEMS SHE HAVE LOTS OF FRIENDS AND SHE SHOULD AND NOT A 17 YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND. WALK AWAY YOU ARE A DANGER TO HER IF YOU GET ANGRY BECAUSE SHE HAVE OTHER GUY FRIENDS. YOU MAY HURT HER PHYSICALLY, YOUR MINE IS NOT RIGHT. WHEN YOU DO SOMETHING STUPID TO HER THEY ARE GOING TO LOCK YOU UP. YOU LIKE YOUNG GIRLS BECAUSE YOU CAN'T HANDLE GIRLS YOUR OWN AGE. BACK OFF, LET HER GO, YOU NEED TO DATE IN YOUR AGE BRACKET.

Answer 3

first of all she is only 14 so really you cant get serious wit her yet!she is still a little kid for real so you never know!and don't she have to be in like middle skewl?i wouldnt fret over it cuz in all reality you prolly aint going to work cuz she is so young she is going to get tired of being tied down to the same guy right now she is just loving being able to show you off to all of her LIL friends i think tht you are just a prize in her eyes cuz of ur age i just wouldnt fall for her as hard as you are cuz eventually she is going to get tired of being tied down to one guy especially when high skewl hits or freshman year is over witch ever one!!!

Answer 4

Remember jealousy=control & you can never control somebody else. Go to the book store & get a self help book or see a person that can help you figure out the ways & werefors.

Answer 5

You need to be more confident. She says she loves you, believe her. Know that you mean a lot to her. Let her breathe. You see her hugging guys, give a girl a hug infront of her. Then go over to her and kiss her. She will always mean more to you. Believe in yourself! Trust me it works!

Answer 6

if you really love her and she loves you ,trust her.