I hate it when people call me mean names in school and at home,what should i do?

Question

I have been suffering from deppression since i was 11 years old.I was bullied by my friends all the time.My brothers and sisters all call me a big loser.I'm a smart kid and a bright student in school.I love helping people that's why they call me mr nice guy.But the one thing i hate is backstabbing.People have been backstabbing me since i was young.They would take me as an adavantage.Sometimes i hate being nice,people take my nicessness as an advantage to get what they want.Is being nice a bad thing to do?I tried to kill myself all the time cause i can't take anymore pressure from home and at school.I know we're all humans and we're all beautiful in every single way but why can't the people i know accept me for who i am?In front of me,they would treat me nicely,but behind me,they spread rumors and lots of mean things about me.I can't take this anymore,i need help.People ask me to change cause they say i have bad attitude,but it's them that's driving me crazy all the time.Stop all this!

Answer 1

Thank God that you have a good heart and a desire to be a decent person!Life can be very hard for anyone these days.Don't let others steal your joy.Ask God to help you and He will.There will always be cruel people in the world.Be smart enough to live your life in spite of them.Keep smiling and look up..God is on your side!
Pray for your enemies..KJB

Answer 2

It don't matter if you are in school or all grown up and at work, some people are just mean. They put other people down and start up rumors to reduce you any where you go. The important thing to do is maintain focus on yourself. Don't give other people the power to make you say things out of retaliation. Usually things don't come out the way you want them to. The thing to do is take a time out and calm down, maintain your composure. Don't believe anything unless you see or hear it happening. People can always lie to try to make you do what they want you to by telling you what you want to believe about that person. Like, if someone else doesn't like that same person they will add fuel to the fire. Distance yourself from her and anybody that associates with her. Don't let her take away the sunshine that will allow a beautiful young flower like you grow. As long as you are good to people and don't let her bother you, people can see through her lies of anger. Don't worry life isn't all about having a boy friend. Don't be so shallow. Everybody thinks being popular is the most important thing in the world at your age. Having fun is. Somebody once told me the boy with the most toys wins. I feel sorry for him. That's not what life is about.

Answer 3

i always believe in the positive outlook in life. be a friend even though they are killing you behind, in that way they wont have anything agains you at all. try to love yourself more than others, coz if others turn their backs on you, you dont have anybody left except yourself. try to focus yourself to other things other than thinking about other people, like arts, games, or music

I really dont know what to say to you. but i know that everybody needs friends. not just any friends but a TRUE friend. it doesnt matter if you have 1 friend, what matters is that he is true to you. and i think that is all you need to be able to get through what you are going through right now.

a song for you, i hope this will make you better. :)

Affirmation
Savage Garden

I believe the sun should never set upon an argument
I believe we place our happiness in other people's hands
I believe that junk food tastes so good because it's bad for you
I believe your parents did the best job they knew how to do
I believe that beauty magazines promote low self esteem
I believe I'm loved when I'm completely by myself alone

I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned
I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye

I believe you can't control or choose your sexuality
I believe that trust is more important than monogamy
I believe your most attractive features are your heart and soul
I believe that family is worth more than money or gold

I believe the struggle for financial freedom is unfair
I believe the only ones who disagree are millionaires

I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned
I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye

I believe forgiveness is the key to your unhappiness
I believe that wedded bliss negates the need to be undressed
I believe that God does not endorse TV evangelists
I believe in love surviving death into eternity

I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned
I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye

Answer 4

my cousin is the same exact way. she never stands up for her self. you need to tell all of those people to shut the hell up because no one has the right to treat anyone ells like crap. whatever they have said to you just ignore them or tell them to "bite me" or something!! stick up for yourself! dont try to kill yourself. thats not a very good idea. i mean you could do so many other things and you shouldnt let some stupid people ruin your life.

Answer 5

1.hire somebody that's mean buts nice to you like a bodyguard.2.get a really mean dog buts nice to you or.3.get both.

Answer 6

you need to take a deep breath and maybe you are putting yourself out there to be taken advantage of. you should probably try to see a shrink.

Answer 7

Other folk: winning
You: losing.

So, what are you going to do to change this?