ok so there is this guy at my skool... he is a year older then me and always tells me that he likes me and i really like him but i am scared all he wants me for a physical relationship.... cus he talks about all this stuff he wants to do with me... but i am not sure if thats all he wants me for... what do i do?
2006-11-24 12:10:41 · 14 answers · asked by Ballerbabe32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go out with him and make sure he doesn't get the chance to be with you physically until some considerable time has gone by first. If he presses on despite you being clear you want to wait...well then...there's your answer. Granted he's a guy and guys do press on a few time safter women say no....but if he loses interest or finds an excuse not to be with you after you tell him you want to wait...then he was only out for one thing. Also whatever you do....do not put a time frame on how long you want to wait (ex: I don't have sex with anyone I've dated less than 6 weeks) because he may be deviant enough or desperate enough to get in your pants to entertain you until whatever time frame you give passes by. Just when the subject of sex comes up, tell him you'd rather wait until you're ready and feel comfortable. You'll get your answer from him.
2006-11-24 12:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by slinkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up very close to my older brother, and he told me "Guys won't talk to you or be interested in you at all if he weren't physically attracted to you." So honey, it is really up to you where you take this, Personally I'd recommend being friends for a while. It'll give you time to get to know each other, and at the worst you can always be casual friends. As apposed to a botched relationship, based solely on physical attraction, which can end up very badly.
2006-11-24 12:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by juliecarlstan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to go is just to stay away from him and just look for other guys who will want you not only on physical aspect. In the entirety of relationship, one wont last when one of the two looks the other person in a different perspective. You will just be taken advantage of.
2006-11-24 12:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be safe. Don't let him go too far. Tell him relationships aren't just for physical stuff. Love is love. It isn't just for the physical stuff. Tell him strait out..I don't want to do all of that stuff, I just want to love. If he really likes you he will say okay and obey your wants. He is a jerk if he is just in on it for the physical stuff.
2006-11-24 12:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Just an Actress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all he wants. Is to be physical. If he really liked you, then why would he tell you all the stuff he wants to do with you? Real love is deeper than that.
2006-11-24 12:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by chilli 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely sex what kind of guy tells a girl that unless he wants some...
2006-11-24 12:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by BuryMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he definitely wants you for sex..
If he likes you, he will stay with you for friendship & companionship
and love....
2006-11-24 12:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could he not want both? But don't do anything you are not comfortable with doing.
2006-11-24 12:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell if if he like u so much cool it with the talk
2006-11-24 12:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by lilnene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question I have for you is, are you a blonde? Second question, how old are you? Third question, WWJD? lol
2006-11-24 12:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋