How do I convince my husband to have a child with me?

Question

My husband has two children from another marraige and so do I but I realy want to have a baby with him to tie our family together. What can I do to make him want to share that experiance with me?

Answer 1

get naked and open your legs in the air

Answer 2

You don't say how long you have been married, or how old the four children are, and this could make a difference. But if he doesn't want to make babies, don't force the issue. There are other ways to tie your family together. There's nothing you can do to make someone want the same thing you do, but if you back off and give him time to get used to the idea, he may reconsider.
You already have four children, and looking after them is a pretty big job. Especially as each set has already had a major trauma in their lives. A kid of your own is going to make them feel like outsiders.

Answer 3

Four kids is quite a family now. But I understand that you would feel complete with having a baby with him. Tell him how you feel and that having a child with him is an expression of the love the two of you have for each other. Just talk honestly with him and give him time to think about what you have said.

Answer 4

I don't think a baby will tie your family together. Your family either will, or won't tie its self together. If your family is good the way it is, a baby may, or may not make it any better. If your family is not that close, a baby may just make things worse. Sorry. He may also be feeling like the financial burden could be too much to bare.

Answer 5

He probably doesn't want to have more kids because of the expenses, not really because he doesn't want to share that with you. SInce he already has two, he might be thinking of the economical part, not the rest. I suggest you talk to him to see why he doesn't want more children, and then try to convince him that you want to be a mom, and have a baby of his as well to complete your family. Maybe he'll understand where you're coming from too. Good luck

Answer 6

Have you discussed having a child? If his answer was "no", then there's no way to convince him otherwise. A shared child will not tie your family together if he doesn't want a child. In fact, it could be the end to your marriage.

Ask him and go with whatever his answer is.

Answer 7

If he is not ready don't force the issue, its an important decision creating a human being and one that needs to be thought through. Just talk about the positives with him and listen to his point of view also. If he doesn't want to be a dad again do you really want him as a father to your child

Answer 8

Nothing. Having a baby takes 2 yeses and if you trick him in any way he'll resent you and you'll regret it. Also, having a child together does nasty things to the mental well being of your and his children. Not a good idea.

Answer 9

I don't know what your relegion is.. but I know that in Islam it's a woman's right & if u r muslim or even christian u can go tell a preacher or a man of relegion they have thier ways of settling these matters.. Ireally feel how u feel :) I wish u get the most beautifull baby ever & have a wonderfull relation with your husband.
tell him it's your right that God gave to you. & it's gonna be his baby as well.
he must feel that it's your right...
Peace Be With You

Answer 10

Kids should NOT be the ties that bind in a healthy partnership.Do not convince him to make a life altering decision such as this.Work on whatever holds him back,maybe it will come in time,GOODLUCK

Answer 11

You can't make someone have a baby. It's called sexual harassment. But this doesn't mean you get to cheat on him. Maybe you should adopt, if your husband is up for that.