I was just wondering if anyone else has annoying mother in laws
and how annoying are they..I mean mine is okay..She is just nosey and wants to know everything about our marriage and constantly butts into our business..What makes it worse is I do love her but ahhh soo irratating.......
2006-11-24 11:26:53 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♥ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Have you ever seen Everybody Loves Raymon? My mother in law is Marie x3! She is nosey, opinionated and judgemental. But she is my husbans mother and we both love her. Annoying? Oh yes! But. . . after 16 yrs of marriage and 3 years of her not speaking to us, before we all 'made up', I realize life is too short and that if I change my thoughts in everything, it doesn't bother me as much.
If she thinks my daughter shouldn't swim when it isn't above 75 and I let her swim, she says things like "well, it's your choice, but too cold in my opinion". I just say "Yeah, she is ok, thanks for your thoughts though". It basically lets her know that her opinion (although pure and thoughtful) are just opinions and my husband I make the last decision.
I guess being 36 yrs old and my own mom not well, helps me to learn to be more patient with her. But just give it time, either she will learn or you will. :)
2006-11-24 11:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES. mine was totally in on our business and she had something to say about every little thing we did with our child, to how we fed him. You just have to tell her that you respect her opinions but she had her time as a wife and mother and you would appreciate the same. Good luck!
2006-11-24 19:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy To Be in April 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me i have the same problem and let me tell you we have a baby on the way and his mother isnt allowed at our house so if she dont get her share of seeing the baby she'll make our lives a living hell!!!!! she already butts in and is very nosey so i bearley ever talk to her!!!
2006-11-24 19:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine doesn't even live in this country, and still finds ways to butt in and give her opinion. She gives lots of outdated advice on how to raise our son, and I know she means well, but things have changed since she had kids!!
2006-11-24 19:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by DaisyGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem, omg she is so annoying she calls twice a day. to see were my husband is. i have three kids. 6,9,and 13 they all can answer the phone most of the time when she calls they do not answer it. It's so funny. : ). so yes i have this problem
2006-11-24 19:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Eat organic stuff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they all are. I can't stand mine all all. She talks to everyone like they are 4 or 5 years old. She can never compare to my Mom.
2006-11-24 19:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your husband to have a little talk with her. She does this because she does not have a life and so wants to get in on yours.
2006-11-24 19:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i have to say is i really hope my mother in law to be does not turn out like that....shes great right now...i just hope she stays that way....I am sorry you have to cope tho!!!
2006-11-24 19:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by kalismommi@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally know what you mean. I love her and all but she's needs to give me and her son our space
2006-11-24 19:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋