Okay, I am married and this my forth, and each time I had a good sex drive.
I cant say if I am just tired from the long day, or tired from pregnancy, but I have no desire to have relations.
It is not so much affecting my marriage, my husband is a great guy, and never really has pressured me, I am lucky to be neutral, when the time is right we act.
But is there anything i can to to put a little fire in my boots to want to get things going?
I just dont want to deprive my husband.
2006-11-24 10:42:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Jessica, try the herb Dong Quai for a few weeks. It will for sure make you more ready, and increase your libido, and your orgasms as well.
If you're talking about the dance lambada, I suggest videos.
Hey, wait a minute.
2006-11-24 10:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by For sure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal. It is just your hormones. I had a great sex drive with some of my pregnancies and none with this one....until about 6 months along. DON"T DO THE JACUZZI thing like mentioned in one of the answers below...JACUZZIS are NOT good for pregnant women. Instead, take the kids to grandmas for the night, and go out on a "date". Then when you come home, you won't have the tress ond worries of waking the kids and you can enjoy each other from the front door all the way to the bedroom! On other days....just try and light some candles, maybe a nice massage....just try something you don't normally do.
Good luck and have fun!
2006-11-24 19:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to read -up on Vitamins/Minerals.
Pregnancy changes the body's Demand and Useage of various nutrients.
B3 for example,,,is an important one for overall sexual function.
Lots of the "tiredness" is also a result of nutrient imbalance.
Most Dr's are hesitant to recommend taking Vitamins/Minerals,,
and usually will only suggest a "good multi-vitamin".
From THEIR perspective,,the loss of energy,libido,etc is "normal"
and not something they are taught to be concerned with as a symptom of anything unusual.
But among Alternative Medicine and homeopathic medicine,,,
It IS something that is addressed.
Most are harmless to both Mom & Baby,,,most are actually Beneficial.
But even so....
CHECK With Your Doctor before taking any extra vitamins or supplements!!
Congrats,,and Best Wishes!
2006-11-24 19:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by TXm42 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I suggest that you two go some where for like a day. Make sure that you all have a jacuzzi. Take a nice bath together, wear some nice sexy lingerie, and put on some "sex music." That will get the juices flowing.
2006-11-24 18:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by ShacklesOff.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should see your doctor. your hormones are probably out of wack.
2006-11-24 18:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by one hot mamma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean libido??
2006-11-24 18:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Julie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋