me an my boyfriend of 2yrs had a fight.it was about he putting sis before me. we are good now, he still calls me nick names but i keep calling him by his name bcuz am still angry deep inside. i want to be friends with him only,but it i tell him that , he might not talk to me at all,and i don't want to lose him as a friend,but i dont want him as a boyfriend if he is always going to but me last in his life.
2006-11-24 10:31:15 · 6 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
So you are afraid to share your feelings with him because of how he might feel and what the consequences may be? And you would like to feel more important in the relationship?
Some thoughts:
First of all, family comes first, not boyfriends/girlfriends. I would worry about a guy who put his family after his girlfriend.
If there are other ways in which you really feel put last, then you need to talk to him about it. Not fight, but talk. Tell him how you are feeling without accusing him of anything.
Secondly, you can't spend your life avoiding what you think is the right thing to do because you are afraid of how people will react. If you really don't want to be with him as a girlfriend anymore, then you are living a lie with him--in essence not respecting yourself nor him. It's best to do what's right, for both your sakes.
2006-11-24 13:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by glurpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know what have could been if you don't confront him!!!! Maybe he feels the same way. it wouldn't at all ruin or really event change your friendship if he doesn't want to go that far. That whole thing with his sister you should find the good in. At least you can tell he knows how that he has a side of him like that. Maybe that could be you someday ;-l
2006-11-24 18:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by all4beingnice 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For your boyfriend's sake, I suggest you no longer see him. You sound like a spoiled selfish person who should spend a lot more time on her school work. Your writing is terrible!
2006-11-24 20:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by saddlesore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last in his life? Sounds like you may be seeing things wrong. He will always love his sister no matter what. You can't demand he ALWAYS put you first.
2006-11-24 18:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by sheristeele 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TRY A 69... THAT'S ALL YOU NEED TO BE BOTH OF YOU HAPPY. BY THE WAY YOUR GRAMMAR SUCKS!
2006-11-24 18:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
family first *****
2006-11-24 18:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by hardworkur84 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋