with the psychiatric probs im battling through and the lonliness everynight .i dont work cant work right now dont have much materialistic possessions..im 29....i want courtney love or drew barrymore to come and save me or il dround in my own vortex of the ocean i cant doggy paddle forever in a rough ocean...i sit here tonight 11:23pm lonely and bored like i do every night with racing thoughts
2006-11-24 10:24:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Replace "I can't" with "I am not willing to."
Make a list of 4 things to do tomorrow. Check of each one as you get them done.
You have internet access, so go on monster.com and use the resume builder to post a resume. Check out all the job-seeking tips as well. You have no excuse not to.
Keep making lists to check off, increasing the number of items. Keep checking things off when you do them/
The point is to start small and work up to handling more responsibility. WIth each accomplishment, one gains momentum and motivation to do more. Each achievement builds you up from the inside out.
When you go out and interact with people, keep it light but make it all about THEM, don't focus on YOUR problems (no one wants to deal with them anyway). Give people compliments and make peoples' days. Ask them questions about themselves and get them talking.
While you are waiting for responses to your resume online, go to the Salvation Army website and look for volunteer opportunities near you. find something you can do, and do it. It looks good to list volunteer work on a resume, and it gets you out of the house and answering to a schedule. You only have to put in an hoour or two at a time. Another thing, your time and effort mean so much to those who need it.
The way to build onesself up is to give to others what you want for yourself.
2006-11-24 10:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least your dream girls are legal and aren't porn stars.That says something for you.Some of the best relationships I've had were just memories or fantasies.Take yourself out on a date your almost sure to get lucky even if you do go home alone.Why do people think going to the show alone is so wrong?Unless ofcourse if you're Pee Wee Herman that is.For petes sake man GET A HOLD OF YOURSELF!! Just not in public.
2006-11-24 18:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You might not like this, but the best way to battle this is to get out and help someone else. You are spending too much time sitting around and worrying about yourself. Volunteer. Not only will you meet people, but you will help others and avoid boredom.
2006-11-24 18:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
come on
look around you
no matter where you are
there are females just waiting for a guy,
a guy like you
talk to them make your move
good luck
SMILE !
2006-11-24 18:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's just a phase. something better will come up tomorrow.
2006-11-24 18:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by invisible1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Courtney Love is a ho... You don't want to go out with her...
2006-11-24 18:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by dalgirl990 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hang in there.
2006-11-24 18:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by The Anthwer Man 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋