what do i wear??

Question

theres a boy i need to impress. hes in a band. hes friends with one of my friends. we both dress the same. like rocker style i guess. mostly in black. but i need to know what to wear to give a good first impression. he doesnt like sluttly girls so nothing like that. not that i would wear something like that anyways. and nothing bright in color. its pretty cold out now too so it has to be something that would work good with that. does anybody have any ideas? thanks if you do.

also i need to know how i should wear my hair. i have long blonde hair. its kind of wavy so its hard to do things with it.

thanks so much =]

Answer 1

ohmygosh I have the perfect idea.. u said he's in a band right? u and ur friend should get sweatshirts. put the bands name on them. and get the guy's last name on the back of the sweatshirt.. It'll look so cute.. and if your afraid it'll kinda creep him out just get the bands name on the sweatshirt.. as for ur hair tie a black ribbon around ur head and straighten or scrunch your hair. You could also pull it back and tie the ribbon around the rubber band (or whatever is holding your hair back.. just make sure it's not a clip).. you could ask to go to his house and listen to him and his band play music for a while.. he'll totally love that u like his music and he'll get the hint that u like him.. u should thank him for letting u come over with a kiss;) he'll more than likely ask u over again to listen to them play again.. or just for u to come over;) good luck... oh and just where jeans..

Answer 2

You should always dress in what makes you comfortable, it will help to make a better impression. This is a suggestion, if it is not your style don't wear it.

Start out with a simple pair of jeans, you can make any outfit with jeans. Then try a nice top, not over the top but not understated. Add some accesories to top off the look, not too many though, try a belt and some earrings.

Try keeping your hair out of your face, you'll seem more open that way, maybe a cute headband? Not a neccessary addition though.

Remember to be comfortable to make a good impression. Good luck!

Answer 3

oppisties attract. he's all rocker, your all bright! and just be yourself! i know it sounds kinda old school but seriously, i use to like a guy like that and we are sooooooooo opistie! even though i never went out with him we still got along really well. girl, just be yourself and have confidince when your around him.

as for your hair, my hair use to be just like that (but straight...then i cut it and donated it so it's so short now i can't do much, anyway....). if you put too much effort into your hair it'll show through and it won't look as good. i suggest if you know your going to see him, that morning throw it up in an easy bun (put it up in a pony tail then twist it then wrap it around) and just let your shorter hairs naturally fall. if you can french braid or you know sombody who can get your hair french braid in two of them. it looks real cute!

good luck, and hun, relax! you are who you are and love yourself no matter what!

if you need anymore help e-mail me at [e-mail]

ps-i'm 13 so if your around my age, i know how you feel, totally!

Answer 4

Ok, so first off your hair: try getting bangs but first straighten (flat-iron) your hair! bangs are really pretty these days, but put them off to the side like parted. Then start with pants: Something kinda tight maybe ripped up and with chains. Then the shirt: something sexy, but not slutty and put a tie in with it!! A red tie. Yeah, and then when you are around him, kinda play with the tie or let him wear it for a while. Trust me it works! Good luck! Just don't change who you are!

Answer 5

a black led zeplin or beatles or roling stones t shirt long sleves or a jacket
jeans or jean skirt with cute matalic shoes
your hair in a pony tail
if you wear make up a dramatic look although nothing to extreme
hope i helped

Answer 6

It's important for you to wear something you feel good wearing. It gives you a lift and confidence. You must be yourself in your dress and not attempt to dress to please others. There's too many to please and you don't know what they like unless you know them or they tell you. Your dress should reflect who you are. Be firm in it and not wishy washy.

Your hair sounds lovely and most guys like it down around your face.

Answer 7

wear your hair down a black band tee and either like tight vynal or leather pants or realy baggy black pants and a looser and tee. like maybe a pair of small guys tripp or caffine baggy style bondage pants and a shirt that is a size or 2 too big if you dont want to use your body to flatter him.

Answer 8

personally i'd go with a jacket like http://www.aeropostale.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2408659&cp=2284058.2540679&view=all&clickid=cat_leftnav_txt&parentPage=family
with a shirt like this http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/product.jsp?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302024501&PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524442144089&bmUID=1164410990368

with a pair of denim jeans

then for accessories i'd go with some http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/product.jsp?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302024737&PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524441930586&bmUID=1164411072219

Shoes, i'd go with a pair of converse.
For hair, i'd look at some pics of ashlee simpson.

I think going with a band tee of his favorite band might be cool and get his attention. good luck!

Answer 9

wear a black tank top with a purple jacket....lime green shoes...and a pink hat. good luck let me know how it went