People Talk about me behind my back. People I don't even know talk about me, I hear whispers and bits of conversations. And people end their conversations when they notice me. It all gets back to me in the end. I have scoliosis and people are calling me "hunchback" ect. I don't know what to do, help appreciated. :)
2006-11-24 10:14:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am 14, I have a lump on my back, a big, NOTICABLE lump.
2006-11-24 10:21:54 · update #1
I have an operation on my back pending. These people arent my friends, they're...aquaintences....at best.
2006-11-24 10:23:08 · update #2
next time someone talks about you like that again...confront them...ask them to talk a little louder so you can hear what they have to say....that will shut them up...they lack brain cells.....people like that are pure nasty an have no intelligence....they are the thick ones.....i hope your surgery works out OK....
2006-11-24 14:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
These people are being very nasty to you and I can understand that it is upsetting to hear it, but you are a better person than they are, try not to let it get to you as there is nothing you can do about it at the moment. But after your operation remember who your friends were and who was so horrid to you. All the best to you with your operation.
2006-11-24 19:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is awful. How young are you and why do you fear it has to do with your back? Could you be paranoid about your back? Maybe you are attractive to them and they are jealous or heard a lie about you. You would be surprised at how girls can just hate you because a guy likes you or for some other reason. Are you that hunched over and if so are you in a brace or doing anything to get treatment?
2006-11-24 18:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My way of reacting to that is if they are talking about me they are leaving others alone, people will always talk about other people its our nature, just ignore it and they will realise it has no effect on you because u are a strong confident person who has no time for people who dont see the inner u only the physical
2006-11-24 18:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by kate 0504 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everyone on this earth is born mean and it is up to our parents to teach us to be nice and if they don't then we are like they animals. Always on guard and the strong prevail over the weak. Sad but true. Try not to listen to them. They will be held accountable in the end.
2006-11-24 18:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by flutterby 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
may be you are just imagining they are, are u so important that people want to talk about you, i'm not being horrible but this is what someone told me when i thought that people were talking about me. some people are horrible and will comment on how you look, but don't bother with these people they are ignorant and not worth a seconds thought
2006-11-24 18:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by julie t 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if these people are supposed to be your friends then i would forget them! strangers are ignorant, rather than be polite or just look elsewhere they would rather stare, ill never understand this, just smile and walk on by.
you live your life the way anyone else does so say to hell with what they are whispering about, if they haven't the nerve to say it to your face then that's their problem.
2006-11-24 18:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well its sad to say but thats what people are like. it is mostly fear of unknown. if you here them interupt and explain your condition. if they continue ignore them. they are not your real friends. in the end you will find most people are nice and will be supportive. good luck for future.
2006-11-24 19:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by lesliethrelfall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie if they talked about Jesus they are going to talk about you, me, and everybody else. People usally like to gossip about people because they do not feel good about themselves. I've done it (thank god I don't do it anymore), but if u (the peopel talking) don't feel good abotu themselves they will usually try to gang up on those they consider to be weak. Notice I said who THEY CONSIDER to be weak. Just because this is what THEY think YOU have to know this not to be true. God has amde you in his own image. You are beautiful to God. He made you for a specific purpose. The bible says you are fearfully an dwonderfully made. It isays thet YOU are th eapple of his eye. What man has meant for evil God will turn it around fo ryour good. Let the haters keep hating that is their job, that's the only thing they can do is hate. And sweetie while they keep hatign on you you just keep holdign yoru head up knowing that God is blessing you an preparing them in front of yoru enemies. And when he prepares them in front of your ememies they will have to eat their own words. God is blessing you right now sweetie regardless of what is going on or what they are syaing. The Lord is blessing yrou life and bringing you closer an dcloser everyday to your divine destiny. Pray and ask God to help you to be strong in the midst of the haters and pray that God will have them to stop and I promise you God will do it just for you, because he is so in love with you and wants the best for you. God bless
2006-11-24 18:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
People will always talk about you without you knowing no matter who you are or what you do.You cant stop them.
Just live your life and be happy.
2006-11-24 18:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋