Ive been hanging out with this Girl from one of my classes. At first, it seems like there is potential to get something more serious going. I guess within four dates, Her attitude turned me off completely. Shes 18 and Im 20, recently, I started ignoring her. She keeps calling my phone. Tonight, I picked up and told her to leave me alone... How do I cut it off with her completely, so she doesnt bother me again? I dont want to be her friend, or acquaintance. I dont really want to have anything to do with her. I wish I had not Talked to her, or started things with her...She called again and started calling me names, i told her, i could care less, and hunged up. I still have this december to see her in class... HELP!
2006-11-24 09:58:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She may have got the message and with any luck she will just ignore you in class...;
2006-11-24 10:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where you went wrong was the ignoring her rather than telling her part. You will know the next time that ignoring a chick isnt the same as telling her you dont want to see her. We are different creatures, men and women, and although ignoring her would seem like a way of saying you dont want to talk to her, actually saying it is the only one that has much chance of working.
Karma.
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2006-11-24 10:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by angelkarmachic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you dont want a younger person to be with in a relationship, then make her fell special by saying, " I feel like if I continue talking to you, then i'll become more attached to you, and I know that in the long run a relationship between us wont be beneficial." That way, you wont hafta worry about her being pissed off and calling you names,and eventually going completley psycho because you kicked her to the curb.
2006-11-24 10:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by playmatecoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to be rude or anything. Just simply tell her I do not want to see you anymore. And when she asks you why, and she will. Well, be honest and tell her why. Obviously, their was something that she did that was a very big turn off. Just be honest. She is probably going to call you names again. That is really mature of her. Hmm. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-24 10:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it quite clear to her that you are not interested, and in fact, you really don't even like her as a person. She will call you names, yes, but that's probably why you don't like her attitude in the first place, so just ignore it.
2006-11-24 10:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got yourself a mess on your hands, not matter what you say she will think he didn't mean it that way. Just get real stern I want you to forget I exist , leave me alone if you don't I'm going put a restraing order on you. I don't even like you, so just get lost.
They are W O R R I S O M E , Best of Luck of Look, Like you Going to need it WHEW!
2006-11-24 10:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, figure out if you really don't want to have anything to do with her then tell her nicely that her and you can't work out, she's just not mature enough for you.
Don't say maybe we can be friends, Girls hate that.
2006-11-24 10:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably got the message! If not, then just ignore her and when you have to speak to her - be really cool and NO SMILING!!
If she still won't leave you alone - then buy a gun!
2006-11-24 10:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your teacher for help, friends, her parents! Write her a nice note and if that doesn't work, get another GF!!!
2006-11-24 10:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't give any reaction at all. After a while sh'll get bored.
good luck.
2006-11-24 10:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋