a married man to look at pornography? Is it OK if his wife is not satisfying him at home? Is it OK if he's into a fantasy that his wife doesn't like, so he looks at porn rather than make her do something she doesn't like? Or should a married man NEVER look at porno, ever?
2006-11-24 09:55:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a woman and I don't feel like looking at porn is bad, as a matter of fact in can be benifical to the sex life if used properly. Now if you are using the porn to replace your wife than you have a problem. Many woman get turned on by different forms of porn so ask your wife if she has any fantasies and see if you can't find something that would appease to her tastes. Happy wife happy life...lol
2006-11-24 10:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by joker:P 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I for one don't believe in cheating in any size, shape, or form. Porn is a form of cheating any way you want to look at it. I my self have went threw some very tough times to say the least, I'm talking about being left behind many times over while he was out and about. Being ignored a lot, he gave me reasons to cheat, but I never do and never will. No I am not with him now for reasons I just said that he did, got my gut full. There is no excuse in the world to cheat on any body at all. It comes to that get out of the relationship, get a divorce and then do what you want to do. Now for your questions.
Porn is cheating and a man that has a mate/partner/spouse or what ever should not look at porn period.....she likes it too.
It is not ok for a wife to not satisfy her husband, that is a part of being married.
If you are not happy with your wife to the point that you are having to have fantasies about something else, then she is not good enough for you or else you would be happy with just her. You are more or less just thinking of your self and not of her. That is not good.
Hope this answered all your questions. Hey this is just my opinion
2006-11-24 11:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your wife! Really now if you are having problems you need to talk to her very soon or your marriage is not going to work out. Have you thought about the reasons why your wife is not satisfying you----stop and think about it because I'm sure she has a good reason. Throw away the porno and become a man & have a talk with your wife!
2006-11-24 11:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by lorrina b 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd say never because all it is doing is putting images in your mind. From what I hear, men spend the better part of a day thinking of sex. Why feed on porn when you have a wife that's not satisfying you? Just guessing, but she may think you're fantasizing of other women when making love to her. If that is the case, it would turn me off to, not to mention always seeing porn laying around in the house. I think you should only be fantasizing about your wife and how to please her. Also it sounds as if you're already looking elsewhere ("not satisfying him at home). Check yourself first before blaming her.
2006-11-24 11:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is ok for a married man to look at pornography. Especially if he isnt satisfied by his wife, as long at it doesnt become an obsession or an addiction. I cant imagine any wife if given the choice picking an affair over porn !
2006-11-24 09:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by sweetkisz 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm probably in the minority on this one , but I don't think a married man should give up porn if that's what he likes. If wifey isn't satisfying you, then you ought to try to find ways to satisfy each other without having to compromise yourself in ways you feel is distasteful or degrading. If you love and respect each other it shouldn't be too difficult to find a happy medium. Pornography is just fantasy and I wouldn't waste time worring about it.
2006-11-25 06:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a convenent you and your wife made to each other an dto God, looking at pron is not in the will of God for your marriage. U and your wife are to be satisfying each other. If there is an issue about what u like, i believe u should sit donw w/ wife and u all have a health conversation about what your desires are and allow her the same. When u introduce things like porn, you are allowing a unclean spirit to enter yours an dyoru relationship. Your wife will never live up tot he images in yoru mind form the owmen in the videos. When u and yoru wife r intimate your mind is drifting to what u saw int he video, what the girl did or did not do, etc. That is setting yrousefl up for the downfall. After a while just a video will not satisfy, your mind will start imaging more and more things that outside of the will of God for your marriage. Got to have a talk about the sex life with your wife. There maybe some things she si willing to experiment with or do consistently. This si the woman God gave you to be our best friend, your soul mate, your treasure. Give her the opportunity to share your desires and express her own w/ filtering in other things that will only inhibit your marriage and intimate relationship. May want to even consider praying b/f speaking with your wife and ask God to help u inthe discussion, that u both will be satisfied.
2006-11-24 10:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think it is appropriate. I know that I would prefer my husband to watch porn rather than go looking outside of the marriage. But really you should talk to your wife about the fact that you are not satisfied in the bedroom. Im sure the two of you could come to some sort of compromise that you are both happy with. Marriage should be about communication.
2006-11-24 10:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by AussieHel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well it's nothing wrong about looking at porn... But remember this_ it's so much more pleasure if you actually do it with someone else_ Life is short - leave it up.... Believe me once you find that right person you won't need it at all....You are not with the right person _ that's the problem. Obviously your wife is not doing her job...But before you leave her... talk to her... and see if she changes / Give her some time.. but not too much.. or if you don't want to get a divorce.. just go and find a lover...
2006-11-24 10:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 10:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋