I think I need to hone my social skills around women. I'm an attractive guy but I admit I don't have the most experience around them. One of my short comings is that I can't just walk up and strike a conversation. In fact, I don't hold a conversation too well.
The weirdest thing is that I'm very fluent and engaging in my mind, like when I'm typing on IM or whatever. I'm the type who can write what I feel but I freeze up around women and honestly, I don't feel like myself. I often ask myself, what's wrong with me??
What kind of things can I do to improve my social skills and feel more comfortable towards women? This problem is eating away at me. Please help!!
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Someone responded that hanging out with female friends (ones I'm not interested in dating) will help me get women. I know it's wrong but I'm just not interested in girls I'm not attracted to. Kind of like what they say, guys & girls can't just be friends if there's no interest...It's true
2006-11-24 09:50:03 · 2 answers · asked by RSDX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well do you have any guy friends with experience? cuz then you can ask them for advice...just act normal toward women...like how you would with ur firends, except w/o the burping and stuff...lol
2006-11-24 10:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by amna s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking in a mirror and practice. Listen, if you say something stupid, a girl won't care. They'll be worrying to much to see if they're saying something dumb. Just do the basics of a conversation with a girl:
-Compliment
-Joke Around...tastefully
-Make small talk
2006-11-24 10:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋