Please Help!!!!!!!?

Question

You see the problem is that I want to wait for marriage to have sex.But,the things around me influence me & gets me thinking that marriage is to long to wait.I don't think it's anything wrong with waiting for marriage.But you see I just started high school & all these kids think about is sex.I've been asked if I was a virgin & i'll say "Yeah". They'll act like they'd just been shot, their mouths would drop & they'd asked what am I waiting for, I'd say "marriage".Then they'd hit me up with the same question every time "What if you don't get married, what are you gone do die a virgin"? I'd reply "yep".But as you all know horomones get the best of everyone.And as I get older mines get stronger.But I made a promise to myself that waiting for marraige is a thing that I want to do.I mean no-one wants to buy a used car right?My bf thinks the same even though he's not a virigin.He wants me to wait.But I keep thinking to myself how long will he wait for me???

Answer 1

First of all...I congratulate you on your decision.

Your body and your virginity are sacred, and you should wait until YOU feel comfortable and ready. Your bf will wait as long as it takes if he loves and respects you...so don't worry about that.

And don't listen to what other people have to say..they have their choices and you have yours.

I commend you for being such a bright young woman, and not falling for peer pressure.

Answer 2

If you think that waiting for marraige is the best thing for you then it is.I think you should wait too.Try not to listen to the other peers around you. You are you, no one else can change that, so if you want to wait then do it.

Answer 3

A very dear friend once told me ... 'To thine own self be true.' Sex involves much more than the physical act. Your whole being is involved. I commend you for waiting.

Answer 4

if he loves you he will wait i think you should wait I didn't and i had a baby at 17 years old. don't do the same.