This is a follow on to my previous question - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnXbBYLPvVeE1QQzNlzt6q3zy6IX?qid=20061124134404AAtRhQQ
Understanding that you both deserve satisfaction and that if one person isn't satisfied it might (or might not) be their problem. Still, if you spouse isn't sexually satisfied then it seems to me that you might have a marital problem on your hands.
So on a scale of 1-10 how important is this to you and why?
2006-11-24 09:28:59 · 12 answers · asked by Alan 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sexual satisfaction with spouse rates about a 4, because i'm more concerned with the other important aspects of our marriage, like how well we make decisions regarding the kids, or keeping a roof over our heads. Look at it from this point....what if your spouse couldn't make love at all for medical reasons? Do you leave? I think if it's true love then you must be patient, there are more important issues in marriage besides sex.
2006-11-24 18:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by signa b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to me it's very important since my own satisfaction is important.
I try to make sure that she enjoys it just as much as I do, although I know I've failed to do this at times, I think I do better than average. Her being unsatisfied is not her problem... it's mine. And different people have different needs. My spouse has times when she doesn't care as much about sex, but she does have other areas that she needs to be satisfied in. The key is fulfilling your spouses needs. Your spouses needs are most likely NOT the same as yours.
2006-11-24 17:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
His satisfaction is a 8 on my scale. I say 8 because his health and well-being comes before sexual satisfaction. It's a huge part of marriage, that intimacy.
2006-11-24 17:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say an 9..I am Extremely Satisfied, My hubby is just as satisfied as i am or even more so..Always keep the home fires burning!!
2006-11-24 18:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by Shem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
5.
I say that because I am married to a wonderful woman and since I am another woman and she gives me a 5: together we are a very happy and satisfied 10!
2006-11-24 18:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I´ll say 10, in fact for me is more satisfying, that she is satisfied, is a major turn on
2006-11-24 17:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by gone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
10 because I want to satisfy them and also because if the sex is not good at home there is a better chance they will stray
2006-11-24 17:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by sweetkisz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
9 sometimes you can't fulfill your partners needs,but if it's an even infrequent problem,you need to fix it.If you aren't concerned with pleasing your spouse why are you having relations with them.If your just out to get yours and go,they have professionals who prefer that arrangement.And they don't get their feelings hurt or feel used!!
2006-11-24 17:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
10 if she ain't getting satisfied she ain't trying to satisfy you. how could anyone expect their partner to get enthusiastic about having sex if she ain't getting satisfied. you know what I'm saying?
2006-11-24 17:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by PhantomWiseman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋