ok theres this guy were like best friends we have dated twice and we still like each other. i want to lose my virginty to him. will he lose respect if i give it up to him? HONESTLY? and by the way i'm very sexuality active. will we ever be the same? help please!
2006-11-24 09:19:34 · 9 answers · asked by girlwithq's 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Okay, your very sexually active, but still a virgin? I'm not quite sure how that works, but as for your question...
Sex and friendship usually don't mix well. Once you give it up to a guy, he will expect it every time your together. If he's in a relationship with another girl, who won't give him sex, we will keep coming back to you.
If your still a virgin, you should keep that way for a little longer at least. Wait for somebody that you really love comes along.
2006-11-24 09:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if you haven't had sex yet, then you aren't sexualy active. You may be experimental in other aspects of sexual orientation, but not sexualy active.
There is always a possibility that sex will cause a rift in a relationship, especially at an age like 15. Both of you won't know what to say to each other the next day. If you aren't sure, take it easy, take your time.
2006-11-24 17:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how you can want to loose your virginity and also be very sexually active. I guess you mean active up to a point...
i.e. a technical virgin.
Well, if you have sex with a guy, he will definitely loose interests if it is not very good, so I suggest you practice with someone you do not necessarily want to stay friends with or fall in love with.
That way if your inexperience will not count against you in the mind of the guy you really want or love.
2006-11-24 17:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by shapsjo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
damnn u should really think about that cause the 1st time i had sex ,the guy my b/f dumped me that hurted so much cause i gave him all and thats how he payed me back dumping me!!!well in my opinion once u have sex with that guy i think he wonlike thres a saying..... LET ME HIT IT AND QUIT IT and HUMP IT AND DUMP IT..u never u know the best ting is dont not have sex untill ure married or ure old enough!!!
2006-11-24 17:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are...but its hard to say how your boyfriend will act. Its up to you and how you feel about your body. Sometimes people stay together at a young age....sometimes not. Just make sure you take care of yourself!
2006-11-24 17:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by eva diane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well idk i guess it depends on the guy. most guys see girls as game. they try to get into any girls pants. not all guys r like this. i would think about it and see if this guy is the one or not. hang in there. your time will come.
2006-11-24 17:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have sex until you are married. It is a very sacred and special moment. and it could cause problems.
2006-11-24 17:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by hugh_laur 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
he wont..if hes been your friend you gewd..i promise i was iffy about it to but we did and nothings really differnt we still respect eachother and
2006-11-24 17:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Madame leota 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with rach
2006-11-24 18:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋