Some time this week, probably, I'm gonna become sexually active for the first time. I want to, there's no doubt about it, but I was just wonderin' what you would do if you were me. This is my first time. So, I'm not on any form of birth control and all I have are some condoms I got as samples. Would just the condoms be okay? I also heard that if you give head before hand, that it contains the most sperm and your less likely to become pregnant. Please help! It'd be much appreciated.
2006-11-24 09:03:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
By the way, incase you were wondering, I'm deffinatley of age consent. I'm 19 and still a virgin, waiting for someone VERY special to share it with, at which I've finally found. I think I've done pretty good. I just wanted to let you know before you condem me.
2006-11-24 09:05:52 · update #1
You need a good source of information, you need to know the risks and benefits of all the options available to you. This is one good site, there are many:
http://www.region.peel.on.ca/health/hsexual/htmfiles/bmethod.htm
However any method of birth control can fail, and no method of birth control is 100%. So two methods are always better than one, and three isn't unreasonable either.
2006-11-24 09:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the condoms, they will give you about 80% safety and no, giving head does not lessen the chances of getting pregnant, since it only takes one strong sperm to make you pregnant. I suggest you wait until you have a better kind of birth control, but USE A CONDOM EVERY TIME! I'll bet it was a guy who told you that lie about head! Teenaged boys will do and asy anything to get it.
2006-11-24 17:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you give head before sex, make sure you clean up his penis very well before he puts on the condom. If it is still slick from his sperm, the condom will just slide right off once he penetrates your vagina, and starts to back out so that he can thrust inside you again.
2006-11-24 17:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no method is 100% but make sure your condoms are latex not sheepskin and I'd get some sort of pill or something. but you should probably wait because sometimes guys will lie and make you think he loves you when all he wants is to get laid. make sure he's not using you as a toy. <(^_^)>
2006-11-24 18:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 4 marriage
2006-11-24 17:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by vadirtysouth42 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm a young doctor studying,
using condoms is not sufficientas it may rupture inside you and let the sperms inside,
use another way sutable for you and choose the days you met him regarding to the period
till you see a doctor, have s6x also anal and don't let him ejaculate in your vagina, and after his ejaculation dont have his penis again in your vagina
2006-11-24 17:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rosa_egypto 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
definatly give head first ,they use a condom or don't give him any of the sweet stuff honey
2006-11-24 17:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please wait for marriage. That is the best gift you can give to your husband - and you will be totally safe!
2006-11-24 17:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by lead2jesus 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋